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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

Advice with a shy girl?

I want to ask out this really shy girl in my psychology class, I'm pretty sure she likes me too. Only problem is, I have trouble getting to talk to her (I haven't talked to her for about 2 weeks in a row now >.<, she sits far away from me and usually leaves the class early before everyone else. I want to get to talk to her more, get her msn and then when the times right, ask her out. Can any of you give me any advice in my situation?

Update:

This is really getting to me now, usually I have a cold attitude in these things and believe opportunities come when they come but I'm getting impatient and I don't want her to think I don't have an interest in her.

Update 2:

@ hey i need an awser - I know I'm sexy but I'm not stripping with another man for you sorry. :)

@ Seconhand Serenade - Thanks, that gives me confidence because I'm better at talking on MSN and if that's what shy girls like thats even better for me.

I'd prefer not to give any notes tbh because I don't want to draw any attention to her by me blatantly giving her a note in class... she's very, very shy.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I'm a shy girl so I'll be perfect to help you.

    Shy people aren't good with these situations.

    If she's anything like what I think she is she wants it done on the web, and she wants time to decide, if she says no maybe ask again.

    If you got anymore questions.

    I'm free pretty much all the time haha

    weeping_dead_rose@yahoo.com

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    First of all, dont try to rush her into anything, because that could scare her off. If you suddenly start telling her shes beautiful and proclaiming your undying love she wont know what to say back, and it could get awkward. But dont be too creeper or secret admirer-er about it either (there was this boy who would leave me notes in my locker all the time and he would whisper stuff to me in my ear.. it was just weird). Just talk to her. Sometimes you have to be her best friend before you can be her boyfriend, especially if shes shy and has never had a boyfriend before.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    just find an excuse to talk to her in the hall/before/after class like "did you do the homework blah blah blah" or you can ask something even if you know the answer like "when is class over blah blah" and then talk to her about other stuff and get her msn or whatever. sorry i would of put a more detailed answer but my sis needs the cpu so hope i helped

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Okay well in school i am a shy girl to, at home i am definitly not~ and from what i have heard most ppl who are shy in school usauly arnt outside of school. so make sure you really get to know her first! talk to her and give ehr a note girls love it when guys are beign super nice and sweet to them. but rule number 1 if she is shy and ur not never call her shy to her face tell her you see more to her then just a quiet girl tell her you can tell she has a huge personality that is hidden because of possibly the fear of rejection? i hope this advice can help

    -Kristin

    Source(s): Experiance
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  • 1 decade ago

    gosh this sounds like my situation. I like this guy named Sam and we did talk some but then we got moved and now were farther away. I still like him and we stare at eachother kinda but we dont really talk anymore.I lost interest because i wasent sure if he liked me or not anymore. Make sure she gets a clue that she like you or she won tthink of you anymore. Try to find her at lunch and if you know her name say hi and just kinda talk to her. you two will say hi and just be like "So these are your friends, cool" and that mite make her laph or not, it depends, i know if i liked you id probsably laph or say "yeaaaa," and jsut kidna go on from there. After its almost time to go in to class again just be like "k well ill see you tomorrow, hey when were in psychology class wait for me ok" dont be afraid to let her know you like her!! Then if she smiles and says "ok :)" your all good. Youll know if she likes you or not if she waits for you. If she dont wait i say just leve her alone. Im a shy girl so if she dosent wait then she has no interest in you. If she does then she does!!!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just ask to hang out after school one day, but don't make any moves so she doesn't get even more shy and nervous about hanging out. Develop a relationship and when you feel you guys have established a good enough relationship to go out, go for it!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Maybe write her a cute note giving your msn and give it to her as you walk into class or something. Or write one saying I want to talk to you after class

  • Thing
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    If you can, sit closer to her, get her number and ask her if you guys can study together. Then just take it from there. Just be smooth about it. Don't be agressive cuz she might get creeped out.

    Source(s): I used to be a shy girl.
  • 1 decade ago

    Send her a note, that's nice. don't say anything cheesy. i'm shy too, i think she might be afraid of rejection or something.

  • 1 decade ago

    Talk to her and ask her to go get a smothie or "study"

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