help i need strong advice from the older experience people?

If a girl is impressed by your things, beware. If you have female friends whose judgement you trust, double date. She will alert you if your date is not on the up and up. I think women have a better sense of those things.

Only date women who bring as much to the table as you do. If they still live at home or if they have to have a roommate because they can't pay their own way then you have a sign.

if an extremely hot chick walks up to you and talks to you and gets you buy her a drink this is the test if you buy it she knows she can get whatever she wants from you, if it seems to good to be true, it is

act poor.