Why is she always accusing me of cheating?

He sounds like he has issues. He is probably so paranoid of you cheating because he did it himself. I personally would have left him when I found that out, but that's your personal preference. If you stay married to a cheater, your marriage will of course have problems. Why don't you tell him to mind his own business. He sounds insecure as well as disrespectful. I say you get your job back and stop letting him control you so much. Sex is an important part of marriage. I'm not saying that it's your fault he cheated on you, but withholding sex from him may have been a main reason that he did. You shouldn't be forced to sleep with him if you don't want to, but maybe you should take one for the team every now and then so that your marriage is little better. But regardless of all that sex stuff. He is being real paranoid and you need to just ignore him and get on with yourself. About your additional details. If you hurt THAT BAD after having sex it is not normal!!! A little soreness from being stretched some is normal but you should be able to deal with that kind of thing. It sounds like you have a serious medical problem. You should get that checked out as soon as you can and then maybe you will enjoy having sex.

Well this could be one of many things as to why women get jealous.. First reasoning would be, that you have done it before.. Clearly you never have, so that's not it.. Second reasoning, is guilt, she has done it and she thinks you have to make herself feel better about what she did.. Third reason, she has been through this with one of her exes.. Fourth, she just has a low very low self esteem.. Ok, so what you NEED to do, is to, on a good day, sit down and talk with her about the situation, she should understand as long as you tell her thats its ruining your relationship..Next step is to LISTEN.. Let her talk talk talk talk her pretty little head off with all the feelings n emotions she has to say.. You will find the root of the problem, and when you do, fix it.. Now, if she had an ex, and she talked about him cheating on her at one point in time, THATS exactly what it is.. She's very very afraid you are going to do it, because the other guy did.. Now I know that that's not you, that was him, but once a girl is "damaged" she is damaged and she needs to repair whats broken.. I hope this helps you man, dont give up, the WORST thing to do is give up..

She is working with guys who are showing her that most men are insensitive jerks and it is hard for her to understand why you would be any different than them. Somewhere along the way of her life she picked up on the fact that most men cheat eventually and that there aren't a whole lot of faithful, men out there. She accuses you because she assumes that you are no different and she just hasn't caught you yet. Any little thing can set this off for her, if you talked to the neighbor without her there, if you text people without sharing, if you are secerative about any part of your life. You can tell her this is ruining your relationship and that you are sorry that she expects the worst out of you, but don't expect her to fully change because she already has it in her head that you have or will cheat and it is just a matter of finding it out.

My only guess is that a lot of the guys she works with are fueling her with their own selfish behavior. When you're around a bunch of guys and you're a girl, a lot of guys tend to treat you just like one of them which results in saying things they might not say around other women. Maybe she's hanging around a bunch of jerks who think it's okay to cheat so they just tell her all of their escapades. Or they might be trying to get false ideas in their head so they can get int their pants.

Another idea-the smallest thing can set off women who are insecure or who battle insecurities. Are you being intimate with her? Are you initiating it? How often do you tell her you love her? Have you bought her something lately? Have you taken her out to dinner? Do this on a regular basis but don't do it out of nowhere. Tell her "baby, I love you and I have been and always will be faithful with you. I'm sorry if I've given you any reason to think otherwise." Then do something sweet.

Maybe she's been cheated on before in another relationship, hence, thinks all men cheat. Being cheated on does tend to make both men and women a bit suspicious.

Its because she is CHEATING, yes thats right she is seeking pleasure from other men because of some kind or relationship problem or inadequacy on your part. She is accusing you of cheating because she is able to do it so easily and therefore thinks you may be doing the same thing.

I wouldn't be able to stand a nagging woman that would get constantly be paranoid of me cheating behind her back.

Usually when someone accuses things like that, it means that they themselves are cheating. Unfortunately, this may be the case. You might want to investigate this further. If you havent given her any reason to not trust you then maybe shes trying to turn the tables...

If it is truly just insecurity then I would guess your have have paranoid personality disorder. Especially if this has been going on for 6 years. If you say there isn't any other suspicious behavior then this is the only other option.

You are blind. She's cheating on you with several different people, men and women. Not to mention the German Shepherd she lets shag her on Tuesday mornings.