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How to ask for a guys phone number?

I like this guy who is in the same class as me (in college). We've talked twice, so I don't really know him that well. He is really polite & nice to me. He always looks at me, smiles while he talks to me & has manners. He says good morning, have a good day etc...

I am confused b/c he always dresses down. The other day he dressed up the second time we talked. Hair was done & he shaved (which he never does), and his clothes were really nice. I'm wondering, why all the sudden change? Does this mean that he is interested in me?

The semester is almost over & I want to get his phone number. I know that it would be kinda weird & awkward since I don't know him very well, but, I want to get to know him better by being his friend first. (B/c he's really attractive. ) I want to ask him before the semester ends in two days, b/c when will I get his phone number again? I don't see him outside of class. Please help me figure out how to ask for his phone number, but not in a weird way. Thanks!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    JUst swallow your pride and say nyou seem cool can we keep in touch after the semester. Then swoop in and ask for his number. If he says great, then jackpot sweet! If he says no(which he won't cause it sounds like he likes you) then you never had his number in the first place. If you never ask you'll never know.

    Source(s): Im a dude
  • 1 decade ago

    It seems like he might be interested in you! you should get to know him by being his friend, so maybe ask if he has a facebook if you do you could start that way. Or just straight up say you want his number. Or when you see him a conversation that will last a while and is interesting, so he'll want to keep talking later or whatever. Hope this helps

  • 1 decade ago

    1. he is a guy-- he is not always going to be dressed up-- not even for you...sorry...even after your 50th anniversary, he may show up in overalls carrying a slaughtered pig for the roast...if you can get over that part about guys, then...

    2. You want HIS number because if you give him yours without getting his, he may never call. And you don't want that to happen...so...

    3. You have to act fast...plan on shanghai-ing this catch and taking him out after class...you will have to...

    4. Go up to him and say "hey, semester is almost over, a few of us are meeting up at my place after class, would you like to join me?" (note: don't invite anyone else)

    if he cannot make it, get his number so you can "keep in touch" (aka "stalk"), if he says he will be there, clean the place up, light some candles and get him drunk...and then say -- "gee? I wonder why no one else showed up? Thats ok. I am just happy you are here with me right now--- I actually kind of like it-- weird how that worked out-- now kiss me!"

    5. The rest is a story for the most utmost of romantical lifelong stories.

  • 1 decade ago

    The "change" he made to the second time you talked is your green light. If he is attractive and doesn't show confidence in asking you first, that comes off as a little weird to me. Maybe he has a girlfriend and isnt totally happy but doesn't wanna cheat? He is hiding something it sounds like. Here's what you do, find a common ground and get his email then go from there. If you wanna go for the digits you can but you can always play it safe with email. After you do this call him out for dressing up but not being a man enough to ask you out :)

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Dont ask around. You want to stalk the poor bloke, and have him think you are asking his friends for his number.

    Since the semester is almost over I think you should walk over to him.

    "Hey (Insert name here) wow, so close to holidays, do you have anything on"? Blah Blah.

    "Well we should have some drinks before the break starts, you know ***** about all the subjects this year" blah blah

    Then it goes two ways.

    "Well here is my number, give me a call when you are free"

    Or

    "Well how about tomorrow after class, celebrate no more Uni"? blah blah "Sure see you then, enjoy your day".

    Then when you are out with him if its going well ask him for his number, it wont be embarrassing because you will already be talking to him so its all good.

    Good Luck love!

  • 1 decade ago

    You could just be honest and tell him that you enjoy talking with him during class this semester and hope that you can continue talking even though you won't have classes anymore and ask for his number at that point, or maybe even give him yours...?

    Does he Facebook or MySpace or anything like that? Maybe you can connect with him in those ways. Those are other options.

    As long as you are honest and chill about it, he shouldn't overreact to your asking and you don't have to worry about saying the wrong thing.

    Good luck!

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Sadly, this happens all too often and can be very frustrating ... while only the guy knows his reasons for this, it could be because he changed his mind, decided that he's really not interested but didn't want to look like a jerk for letting you down (although they don't realize that it would be more respectful and they wouldn't look like a jerk if they were honest) or it could be just for the sake of seeing if he can get the number. Sorry for your luck but don't waste time worrying about it - it's not worth it.

  • 1 decade ago

    Here is how I got my husband's number:

    I always put my phone in my pocket, but when I got in the class that we had together I put it in my binder when class was almost over I said o my I am so bored while going through my phone and he looked at me and asked o what is your number?

    I was so happy! I got what I wanted!!

    It is not 100% sure you'll get it but at least you know if he is interested to get your number too ;)

    And if that doesnt work ask him for his! :)

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    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    What I did (which worked):

    Near the end of a long conversation, I casually asked him: "Do you want my number?"

    The very cute, hot guy said yes, and then he asked me, "Do you want my number too?"

    I said yes, you can write it down here (on my notebook).

    So that's how we exchanged phone numbers, and now we text and stuff. We even arrange to meet (since we have no classes together).

    And I'm a shy girl, so if I can do this anybody can!

    Source(s): personal experience
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You could try continuing to carry on a good conversation with him where both of you should be interested in and after wards, you could confidentially reflect on how interesting/great the conversation you had and ask him for his phone number, E-Mail, MSN, etc.

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