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8th grade girl and 12th guy?

So, my neighbor is an 8th grade girl and we are just friends. She was at her friend's house and her friend started texting me so I was like whatever, didn't care.

After a while of texting and talking, I started liking her and she really liked me. I wasn't going for her for sex or anything, she's just a wonderful girl. The only thing that's weird is that she's an 8th grader and I'm a 12th grader.

We always flirt and that stuff on the phone and we can get pretty raunchy sometimes. We say we're going to have sex like this weekend but we're not joking, we just do playful stuff like that.

My 8th grade neighbor's dad checked her messages and yelled at me for talking to her like that (my neighbor) telling me to talk to girls my age. I also called them "sexy" as a sarcastic joke in response to her playing water polo which really pissed him off. I also forwarded a message to her saying how i told her friend (the one I like) that her and her friend should be **** buddies, which was ver inappropriate.

So, I'm worried that her parents might talk to my love's parents saying how I'm a creeper when I honestly just like her because she's amazing.

Should I move on because society doesn't allow this? If her parents do find out and have us stop texting, what should I do? Was I in the wrong for liking her, which is out of my control?

I'm afraid her

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Prettty wierd little situation you have going on here... But... You should just do whatever you feel is right. Hey F***k society, do whatever! Dont go by what other people say/think, Just follow your heart. Hey, im 16 dating a 21 year old! Your not a creeper lol. but hey- do what you feel.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    It relies upon on how previous you're, and whilst ever you're considered an person. as an occasion: in united states of america you're considered an person at 18 so technically talking an 18 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous can pass out with a 40 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous and this is going to be legal. perhaps slightly strange yet vs some one in canada the legal age there is sixteen. So in canada a sixteen 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous could be allowed to dat 50 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous. nonetheless strange yet wish you get the assumption. maximum 18 3 hundred and sixty 5 days ols adult males do no longer appreciate women folk at your age. you're merely in intense college on the same time as he's able to pass to college. properly maximum adult males dont appreciate women folk many times. My terrific advice could be this. in case you pick drama, rigidity and somebody to in basic terms substitute your relationship status then with the help of all skill pass into it, yet once you pick actual love, love which will final consistently. authentic happiness. somebody to enhance you up particularly of putting you down, then await that perfect one ;) your decision. wish i helped.

  • 1 decade ago

    Can't you guys just be friends.. The age difference is sort of an issure first of all, and speaking to them in an inappropriate way is another. I think you guys should stay friends at the most and thats all (unless she's like 22 and youre 26). When you become legal and while she is still a like minor, and you guys do get sexual, that would be illegal. But my advice is that you guys just stay friends unless you're really "head over heels" for her...

  • 1 decade ago

    its illegal u can be in jail be careful dude

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