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Breakup! Breakup! Breakup! Breakup! Breakup!?

In other words what are the most hurting words a guy can tell a girl when breaking up that will make her feel like **** and want to come back to me crawling.

Update:

I just broke up with my girlfriend of two years who thinks it's okay to go out partying every friday and get drank at the age of 23 and in a serious relationship.We are both students in a foreign country and now that she has flown back home she thinks she doesn't need me and can get up tp whatever she wants.I need a few ideas on what to tell her to make her feel stupid and that i don't need her.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Tell her: " i don't need you. you are the worst woman i've ever met, i can't believe i dated you. I feel sick every time i think about me and you. Seriously! how could i've dated you! you will never find someone like me, you *****. hope you have a miserable life, because you deserve it."

  • 1 decade ago

    You shouldnt tell her anything like that! That is the most immature thing to do to a girl and that is so

    stupid. Why in the world would you do that?????? If you would do something like that then your just gonna make her think " what did i see in him anyways if he doesn't even respect me enough to just let me go." Shes probably still really hurt, and she's trying to get over you, so don't pull her back in. Dont ever make a girl feel stupid. It hurts. I mean, you already broke up with her anyways, why would you want to hurt her even more??

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    If you want to end it sooner, tell her you met someone else. or: just say "ok" and walk off. or: don't answer her calls, text, or email. Block her calls. or: say "good, I'll help you pack your stuff" or: "good, I'm going on a cruise anyway" Do not stalk her! When it's over, it's over. If you have a child together, it's different...stay there to help raise the children. Then when they are grown, leave. Joy to you both!

  • 1 decade ago

    Tell her that you are starting to feel a bond to another girl and you don't want to hurt her. (your girlfriend). Girls always want the guy that doesn't want them. Tell you girlfriend the new girl is very beautiful and built like a playboy model and you can't help being very attracted to her. Tell her the new girl keeps flirting with you and you see that you and your girlfriend are drifting apart and maybe the best thing is to follow your heart and start dating the new girl...Tell her you don't mind her going out and getting drunk because you just started doing the same thing and it's so much fun. Tell her you plan on asking out the new girl and wanted to know if she minds.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Sometimes, being a friend is the best solution. Let her go and see for herself. If she comes back to you be honest with her and let her know that you have high expectations for yourself and you would like to take it one step at a time before making any commitments. This way, if she wants to be with you as much as you say you want to be with her, she gets to make the decisions about whether she changes or not.

    As the old saying goes: If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it's yours to keep. If it doesn't, it never was.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Honeslty, the best way to do that is to act like you don't care. When she sees how bothered you are about it, it gives her a sense of control. If YOU act cold, distant, shrug your shoulders and act like you dont care, she is gonna wonder "hmm how come he's not chasing me? how come he's not getting upset anymore? did he find someone else?". BELIEVE ME...the best way to get a girl to come crawling back is complete avoidance and ignoring her. I wouldn't bother with "what can I say?'....just dont say anything. Dont call, dont text, dont email, dont pick up her calls. IGNORE HER.

    And btw, while you're doing that, try and find a more decent girl who's more considerate of your feelings.

  • 1 decade ago

    "I realize that you don't really care about whats to become of your life and future, but honey I do. I'm sick of your crap and your pretending that you don't need anyone. And although your not, I'm planning on making something of my life. So I'm going to go start I'm sorry if this hurts but you need a reality check if you think that this is how to succeed.." Or something like that.

  • 1 decade ago

    Just keep it real and don't lie if I think its best that we stay apart is hurtful to me because you never want to hear that if that does not do it she has something else going on anyway

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Tell her the truth of how you are feeling. Do not hold your feeling inside, let it all out! Slam it in her face, tear her to shreds, and so on.

  • 1 decade ago

    insult her family

    bring back very painful memories

    thatll get her

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