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Tokio Hotel Family: Does this ever bother you?

Bill: I am not ready to meet a girl who already has some kind of opinion of me without knowing me personally, that is why relationship with a fan is impossible.

I wasn't expecting anything else, and this didnt disappoint me at all (my chances were at zero to start with), but what bothers me is that what he says is completely true... we dont know him personally, and we know next to nothing about him and the band, we only think we know them from the few interviews and snapshots of their lives from th tv, and also from the lyrics of their songs. I'm sorry I sound really harsh here, I'm not trying to be, I'm just writing down what's coming into my head.

With song lyrics... how much does that actually say about them? Schrei, one of their classics, was written with no input by any of them, in Humanoid, if you look at the bottom of the pamphlet thing, it will have: Music by: name, name, name, name, name, Tom Kaulitz. Words by: name, name, name, name, Bill Kaulitz.

In interviews, they are perfectly capable of only letting us see the side they want us to see... I know I dont always tell the truth about myself, and I'm not saying they are bad people or that they are hiding themselves from us, I'm just saying that we dont really know that much about them at all...

I've thought about all of this (like for the whole of last night), and I know its like this, but I dont think any of it actually makes a difference to me, I'm still crazy about TH and crazy about Bill... but I cant say the fact I know so little about them doesnt bother me...

So Poll: What do you think?

What is your favourite altered TH song (ie backwards, pitchchange)?

I dont really have one, I just love the english and german collaborations Overtheskii puts on Youtube... I think Pain of Love/Kamp der Liebe sound the best together =D

Oh, and, in case youre wondering who I am, I used to be Ichliebetokiohotelundbill until this morning... Lass uns laufen is a cool song!! =D

Update:

and with the dating fans... idk, everyone sorta has an opinion of him anyway... if he doesnt date a fan, who would he date? A girl that's convinced that he's gay? (ie almost everyone at school *sob*)...

idk, none of this makes a difference anyway... its his choice.

Update 2:

and what IS with the td's? theres still so much of that going on...

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    i was just thinking this last night too.

    bill's statement sorta left me broken...

    but it also made me realize something.

    we're just a bunch of fangirls who love their music and watch all their interviews and episodes and know everything the media will reveal about them... we're really pathetic in a way. we dream about them, and fantasize from afar, when in truth, we don't know anything about our biggest idols.

    our biggest idols are the ones we've created for ourselves.

    we've used our imagination to create four perfect characters, which we strive to be with one day.

    (wow, i'm really wise today O.o)

    anyway, what i'm saying is that even though we will never EVER even get the chance to know tokio hotel personally, nothing can stop us from dreaming. all we can really do is just hope for the best in bill's love life, and let things happen as life intends.

    aaaaaand that's the end of my little speech. ;D

    poll: ehhhhh i like all the mis-interpreted lyrics stuff! xD

  • 1 decade ago

    You don't sound harsh. Like you said, it's true. Fans need to realise that they don't have a chance with him. We don't know the real Bill or the real Georg etc. We never will. Like you said, they can control what the fans see. They might not realise it but they can & they do.

    Humanoid seems to be the most personal album they've done so far & it shows. Some of the lyrics are so deep that it makes me think. For example this verse from Attention

    I scratch your sweet name

    Right into my skin

    You left me bleeding

    But I couldn't give in

    I swallowed the poison

    To get infected

    Give back my heart that

    Your body rejected

    It just makes wonder...what do they think about? We have no idea what they have or are going through. We try to & end up making situations worse. The whole hunger strike for example.

    Poll: Would this be considered an altered TH song? lol

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w08yrXpuSR8 <--- I love it :D

  • 1 decade ago

    I totally agree, that's why I understand I will never meet any of them. But my aim in life is to go to a TH concert! They have only ever done one performance in England, and that was in 2007. It was also in London where I don't live.

    The guys they are on camera and in interviews are the guys I love to read about. Yeah it may not totally be them, but there has to be some truth to Tom's humor right? I totally understand what your saying, but don't be disappointed, they still make you smile :]

  • shabo
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    It bugs me too!

    I'm always sad at the fact that I will never even get to MEET Bill (or anyone else in Tokio Hotel)! :'(

    I agree with you, we can only gain so much information from interviews and songs...what about the side of TH that we don't know about? The side they joke around about in interviews that we just laugh at (ex. being messy, jealous, picky..etc)?

    But you know what? There are fans who can look beyond the media's image of TH and can accept them for who they are personally. I wish he wouldnt have his mind fixed on the fact that dating a fan would be impssible because it CAN be possible.

    I just hope he finds the right girl...someone who will love him aside from the fame, money, looks, and talent. Someone who cares about his personality and family! :]

    Poll: Monsoon Backwards....it's amazing!!!

  • yupp, I feel the same way as you!

    I've thought about the same thing before and realized a long time ago that I like Tokio Hotel for what I know (from interviews and etc) but I can't really say I "LOVE" them becuase I don't actually know them personally. do you get what I mean? "/ like I love them for what I see and know about them but at the end of the day I don't really know them?...

    as bad as it sounds we all know its true and I totally understand why Bill wouldn't want to date a fan because they would already have a image of Bill for what they think they know about him and if they see something Bill does that's not "Bill like" it would change their view on him. I guess Bill just wants to find someone who likes him for him and not becuase he's in a band.

    it's like the whole situation with Bill awhile back. everyone thought he was a perfect little innocent angel and when he said something that wasn't so innocent everyone started freaking out. if Bill really said that then that's what he really thinks and we can't go all crazy on him (and the rest of the guys) just because they do something you might not agree with. at the end of the day that's who they really are [:

    ohh and this reminded of Gustav? tehehe

    but yeah... we all have a image of Gustav as a quiet little boy who never talks

    but really behind cameras he can be the total opposite. I know a guy who just like

    Gustav all quiet and shy around other people and when he's with his friends he never

    stops talking and he's just the opposite of what people think he is :P

    EDIT

    okay wtf seriously. why does someone keep

    giving me TD. do you not have anything better to do!?

    geez.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    ok...i remember seeing in an interview that bill WOULD date a fan. but only if she loves him for who is really is not just what he has.

    and its totally true that we, as fans, have no idea what goes on behind stage, behind cameras, behind everything. we think we know them personally but none of us do.

    and this is a comment on the last part of the question where you say everyone is convinced he is gay.

    yeah, almost everyone is. just because he's feminine doesn't mean he's gay!

    sorry i just had to say that.

  • 1 decade ago

    this bugs me too. :[ i hope he finds the right girl soon. because in these kinds of things, to me he always sounds like hes sad or something. i dont want Bill to be sad, i want him to be happy. him, and Tom, Gustav, and Georg. (although doesn't Georg have a girlfriend? i'm pretty sure i heard him say that in an interview not too long ago...) anyways, i just hope htey're all happy :]

    Poll: uhmm...idk. :P haha i've never really heard one.

  • 1 decade ago

    .. and what else should bug you is in the Humanoid CD, there were photos of Bill and Tom and Photos of the whole band. No individual Georg or Gustav photos.

    I was really annoyed with that.

    Dogs unleashed (Ducks on Weed) - andbillsaidwoah (i think her names like that)

  • You know, that bugged me too. Though I do understand.

    But then I was thinking, and you never REALLY know what you want exactly until it happens.

    (Small example: my mom never liked blonde guys. She pretty much only like dark haired ones. But my dad is blonde. Go figure.)

    My point it, Bill has a lot of ideas on what exactly he wants when he finds "the true love" (tehe) but how can he be 100% positive?

    I don't know. Just thinkin' O.o

    Poll: I think they all sound equally as cool. Just cuz they're like the same...only not..? Idk idk tahah

  • 1 decade ago

    truth is, i never know an other celebs that reveal as much as them, thats why sometimes theres illusion that we know them. but of course nobody know anything...however im obsessed with bill, i know that theres really nothing that hold me except the tenuos connection with the music n a young girl fascination with beauty...but now, its enough to weave dreams...n i alwas pray that he will meet the one

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