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What should I do? I'm so tired of being number two...?

Through out my whole life i always wondered when its gonna be my turn. My turn to know what it feels like to hold that person in your arms, to have that special girl fall asleep in your arms, to spend hours talking about nothing at all. I feel so alone, and not wanted or love. I'm always the friend, ALWAYS THE DAM FRIEND!!! I'm tired of being number two, to Mister Number one. I'm tired of seeing everyone pairing up and I can't help but think that there is a special way humans find each other, but someone how i'm left out of the loop. This girl, i tried to not get to close, I tried not to talk to you a whole lot. I tried not to get in to the friend zone. But i think i fell in.

I'm not looking for any actually answers, I just really wanted someone to know how i felt...

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Girls don't want to be friends with guys, we have other girls for that. We want to meet our match, literally. Stop acting like a girl and be a man and then you'll be treated like a man. If your sitting around discussing guy secrets with your girl friends then they're just going to turn around and try them out on other guys and you'll be alone, because your making it to easy and we like it rough (that's right, I said it). Girls don't want all of the answers handed to us, we want to play & flirt & discover. You have to be mysterious and have your secret guy world that way we will be curious and want to crack your nut (yeah, I said that too).

  • 1 decade ago

    hey sweetie if u want 2 b w/sum1 tell them. mayb ur jus 2 shy. the big brother, BFF thing dont always work. yeah let her know that u r a good guy but dang also let her know u want 2 b with her. hell whats the worst that could happen? get turned down? well thats better than not knowing at all!! trust me im a woman an even we get turned down sum times. u jus gotta get out there an go 4 it. thats the only way u will know what life is all about

  • 1 decade ago

    Then I will not give an answer....

    I will give some understanding and advice. don't give up on love!

    But i think you are going about it all wrong. being a friend to a woman is a good thing. especially if it is a mature grounded woman. all of that fireworks and madly head over heals in love crap.. never stands when there is no steady base for it to sit on....Friendship is what is left when the flames cool.

    I know being the damn friend doesn't keep you warm at night but neither does giving up 1/2 your life, 1/2 your belongings to a spiteful ex-wife.......burrrrr that is cold!

    try reading my blog on how to really look at when searching for love. i think you will like it.

    http://www.psychictarotreadings.net/looking-for-lo...

  • 1 decade ago

    Ask them out instead of avoiding talking to them or talking too much.

    Maybe the right girl just hasn't come along for you, or maybe you are setting your sights too high. Some of the more attractive girls will not date a guy until they see other girls dating them. I can't explain it, but when a guy has a gf, they look more attractive. Maybe they dress nicer and look better groomed when they are with a gf. Ask some of the not as popular girls out first.

    Just make sure you dress stylishly, keep you hair clean and looking good, don't smell and no bad breath.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Just be patient. Next thing you know, all your friends will be getting married and you'll be left sitting there wondering "What's wrong with me?" But don't worry, you will find someone that will fill that slot in your life, it may not be right when everyone else does. But you'll be better off for waiting for the right girl. For now, just enjoy life! Cheers

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  • Honestly sweethart maybe ur jus giving off da friend vibe. I mean sumtyms guys du dat witout even knowing,its lyk dats yal way of gettin closer witout letting us no dat ya actually lyk us. hw du u usually act around a chick dat u actually like?

  • 1 decade ago

    You're putting women on a pedestal. Not that you shouldn't treat them with respect, but they need to know what you're after from the beginning. If you're just a nice guy that doesn't put any moves on them for weeks, then you're going to be the friend she talks to when she has a fight with the guy she's shagging.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i know what you mean. I am feeling very left out of the loop as well. Flippen sucks Oh and Me!! I agree with you there.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Change "your" to "my".

    If you start as super friendly, that is how you will stay.

    Next one, kiss her right away and be agressive.

    You sound too passive.

    And quit complaining.

    Reach out and get what you want, just be honest and responsible.

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