my friend is married and has a boyfriend , and her husband ses its ok?

In that scenario she should get cracking on her marriage trying to save it.

An open-marriage or relationship, or a polyamorous relationship, is not a substitute for a healthy primary.

As frankly, as Latin G says it's so freaking common... normally it's just a secret.

Her husband's acceptance is probably guilt driven.

If they can be that honest with each other they probably ought to try to reconcile. Maybe love will return and they will be fantastically happy, maybe it won't and then they know it's time for divorce.

She should leave him, cus it is only gonna get worse... i used to be married and i would never say its ok for the girl to have a boyfriend. Divorce is pretty much what they need to do. If you truly love someone you wont go messing around with somebody else.

If she feels the need to have a boyfriend then maybe it is time for a divorce. I know that sounds kind of bad, but if she was happy to have her husband she wouldn't have a boyfriend.

Divorce her husband and be with her boyfriend.

Since the husband doesn't care it's probably because he has a girlfriend, too.

So either split up or stay married and "keep up appearances".

Theyre CraZy

Kudos to Shannon, I totally agree. Do you really want to be apart of this; especially since you don't feel comfortable about the situation in the first place?

thats crazy! if you are married, you should NOT be dating another person. but if she was unhappy with her marraige, maybe they should talk about it. tell her to take it slow with her boyfriend until things get cleared up with her husband. if not, then its like loving/split between two people.

Polygamy was accepted in all cultures and societies for 10,000 years before the church got its hands on marriage to force people to their way of thinking to control people. Their way of life is more normal than you imagine.

divorce the hubby, if he's a jerk, she was unhappy and has moved on to a new guy then there is no reason why she should be with the hubby.

Apparently she wanted to make him jealous or wanted him to end the marriage when he found out. It back fired. So if that is what she wants she needs to end it herself.