girls what kind of things turn you off in a guy?

Wow.. If I could find a guy like you, I'd be content.

But I guess some girls are up for a challenge.

You can try being more "mysterious"..

Don't put yourself out there.. Let them find out.

Don't hide things, be open about whatever they want to know.

Even though love isn't a game, if it gets boring, who would want it?

I guess what I'm trying to say is that you need to keep being yourself, but add a little "pyzam"!

-Please, do not change your ways! You sound like a nice guy.

I 2nd Lalalala up there, I don't like the cussing all time either. It makes it sound like he has nothing better/smarter to say. Before looks, I care about a guy's personality, and if he's dumbing it down for his guy buddies or something, it's a turn off. You sound awesome, but maybe the problem might be being too caring? Not saying you are, but there's a type of guy out there that is so nice that it almost comes off as being clingy, and girls tend to find that a turn off. We're funny like that.

The reason your relationships don't last is probably because things are no longer interesting because there is no challenge in attaining a super nice guy. There has to be something that keeps a girl guessing or she'll lose interest.

I don't know what you look like but could be that your personality is amazing but you're not much to look at.

The reason girls like players is because other girls want them. We want what we can't have. Also, they tend to be hotter.

So really, the ideal boyfriend is someone not super easy to obtain but doesn't treat you like trash. Its a mix of the nice guy and the player.

Um, these are the things that turn me ON

1) Girls ALWAYS care about looks, no matter what they say. Lots of girls care for looks more than guys do.

2) A good smell.

3) LOYALTY!!! This is the biggest thing.

4) A guy who doesn't try to make me jealous.

5) Doing, random, spontaneous, romantic things.

6) Not being to clingy.

well maybe the sweetness is too much and maybe you seem like you are trying to go too fast. Plus then theres also the female's fear. Our fear is that if we get into this relationship then the guy who seems to be like a player will hurt us. so maybe you should back off a tiny bit and don't get too close too fast. I hope im helping! =D Message me if you want more help. :) Don't give up darling. Happy Holidays! =D

If you run away from love, then love will always come searching for you. Then when it finally finds you, your too afraid to come and embrace it again. :)

* When he's a complete d**k, then he's out the door.

* He can spend time with his buddies, but leave time for me too! Girls like attention too, ya know.

* Bad hygiene. I mean, he can go roll around in dirt and stuff, but at least take a shower, brush your teeth, etc. You don't have to go over the top with products.

* Flirting with other girls. That kills me every time.

Turn ON's...

* Spontaneous! That's always fun - but don't go over the top with that sh*t.

* Caring/Romantic - Hug the girl, hold her, kiss her every once in a while. It's nice, and she'll just melt.

* Show interest in what she wants to tell you. If it's dumb stuff about Sharon at work then just tune it out a bit, but at least pretend to listen. If you can tell it's something important, really listen, because she obviously wanted to share this with YOU.

Turnoffs are things like being overbearing. If she says "Gotta go" in a text or something, don't keep texting her. Let her go. Don't obsessively text, call or IM her. It really gets annoying. Give her space, but still be sweet and show her how much you care.

Some turn offs are acting like a player and being a complete jerk.

Immaturity all the time, being too romantic and cheesy, guys who smell, guys who complain a lot, guys who act like girls, over confident guys.

Turn off's are jerks or liars or players and cheaters because we don't want guys like this.