Just added this girl on facebook, how do i start talking to her?

simple, easy instructions on how to talk to a person on Facebook!

1. Make sure the person is online. That is very crucial for this to work.

2. if the person is online (Check the online box at the right hand corner of your page), click on his/her name. A mini chatbox will appear at the bottom of your screen and it will allow you to type.

3. Type "Hello! my name is ____. Nice to meet you!" or something along those lines.

4. If she replies, then congratulations! you have officially introduced yourself to her! Now feel free to talk to her about anything, from what grade is she in to what her favorite color is. Just don't ask her weird questions like if she has clean socks.

Just follow these simple steps and you'll talk to her in no time!

P.S. If she doesn't answer you on facebook, try personally introducing yourself. Don't take it personal if she doesn't reply on facebook. She may not reply since she doesn't know you.

Agreed. Facebook is one way to break the silence, but no one could argue that talking on Facebook first will leave a lasting impression. Even walking up and saying "Hey, I just added you on Facebook, I'm..." would be better than talking online.

I'm a teenage guy too and I know how nerve wracking it can be to talk to a girl for the first time, especially one who you think is pretty, but speaking from experience I can say that if she means that much to you, you can find the courage to talk to her in person. I made the mistake of never telling a girl how I felt and right once we graduated she even dis-friended me on Facebook. Major bummer.

Moral is, don't let it happen to you! Life's too short to be afraid of people.

I'd wait if a girl added me on her facebook to start a conversation.

..real life, best way to go. poke? hell no. wall post? yeah, let everyone see that you're too afraid to talk to her outside of the internet. DO IT IN PERSON!! It's a lot lot lot harder for a girl not to talk to you if you greet them in person, rather than online. Say, hi, ask her for her name, ask what music/movies she likes, talk about current school news (fight, teachers, what classes she has) or homework and how much it sucks, etc. just talk to her, and before you leave, ask for her number, and after a few weeks of talking, ask if she wants to go to the movies. after you go to the movies a few times, you could invite her to your house, or if you have a class together, work on a project together. then you will be able to go to each others' houses more easily after the first couple times (won't be as hard/nervous) and after you hang out at each others' house a couple times, you could ask her to dinner on a date. After a couple dates, ask her out.

If you don't know her your pretty much stuck with small talk and she'll think your a creep for randomly adding her grow some balls and get the guts to talk to her in person.

Now that you added her as a friend why not talk to her in person, it might be the next best step, you already made the first one.

Like ael said, talk to her in person.

What is it with kids? Bloody hell I'm only 25 and I'm disgusted by how lazy and pathetic kids have gotten since I was one...

im having the same problem, but we can work thru it together? lol

i say catch her whiles shes online and im her.

let her know ur interested but dont be blunt.

= hey, didn't we go to school together? why didn't we ever talk/hang/ go out?

sounds like a good line to me. tell me if it works and then ill use it XD

I'd go with a Private Message introducing yourself.

jus message her saying hi, im bored so im talking to random people.

she may reply back.

worked for me