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Where do i go from here? I fell for a girl who didn't exist. I feel so stupid, so lost, please help.?
Hey, I feel stupid that this ever happened to me, i am a very good looking 23 year old male. I am very outgoing, i never met any girl over the internet before this. So it all started when this beautiful girl "Nessa Zollern" (fake name) Messaged me on myspace.
I usually don't message girls back all the time, but i was born so i thought why not. I messaged her back and we got a pretty nice conversation going. We exchanged interests and so on. Well we found out we both played a computer game (World of Warcraft) so after a couple days of talking we decided to make a couple new characters and play the game together. I called her on the phone and we would talk while we played. Nessa had a very heavy british sounding accent, but she said she was originally from germany and that she was an aristocrat. A few times she mentioned how much money her family had and pretty much said that she was set for life and so on. She seemed like the sweetest girl i had ever talked to. For the next month we talked EVERY single day on the phone when we woke up, until the time we went to sleep. This girl was AMAZING. We played the game together, she transfered her higher level characters over to play with me, she went and bought every game that i had bought and we had a blast playing and talking with each other.
If we were not on the game, and not on the phone, we were texting. At night time we would talk on the phone until we were both so tired that we would have to get off the phone. After a while of talking, getting close, just comparing how much we had in common which was A LOT, I asked her to be my girlfriend, and i knew it was stupid because she was over the internet and i never met her in person, but i was blown away by her beauty, her brains, and her personality. She accepted and we made it "facebook official" I was so excited, my whole life seemed to be changing, i met the perfect girl. So i thought. I am always the guy who just think things are to good to be true and i really didn't expect anything but i was just searching through her friends list and realized that every one of here friends only had like 15 friends and it was that small group of people that was in her pictures that was all friends together. They would all message on each other profiles like "happy birthday", "had so much fun this weekend" and have little funny fights and etc.. Well, i scroll down her wall and i go back like a few months, when i see her ex bf that she told me about that she said she dated for 2 1/2 years..
well i check his profile out to find that he had a bunch of pictures with her, but he photoshopped his face in them, which was weird that the didn't have real pictures because she said that she seen him all the time, and the signal that i got from that was that she also met him on the internet.
I confront her about it and i was just really upset, i didn't know what was going on, and i was starting to not believe the things she told me, which got me wondering if she was the person she said she was. I asked her to take a picture of herself holding a sign with my name on it. She did.. it hit me like a ton of bricks when i realized that the sign was obviously photoshopped into the picture of the girl that i thought i had been falling for.
All of her pictures were stolen off a girls page that probably has no idea that theirs a fake profile of her. There was hundreds of pictures, and all of her family and everything was on her facebook, but they were all accounts that she made.
All of her pictures matched the people on her friends list, but she just stole those pictures from this girls friends, renamed them and acted like they were her friends. I can tell you now that i do not know what this girls intentions were, but i can tell you that i will never forget this, and that it broke my heart.
This is the picture she used as her self (the blonde)
I just wrote the local newspaper.. I have a feeling they are going to want to eat this up.. sigh...
And this is my dumbass self that fell for this girl..
12 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Dude That ****** sucks. Try not to be on the computer so much. If your as good looking as you say, go do something with your life. Im not trying to be mean just giving you some advice. Travel to europe, It inspired me.
- ?Lv 45 years ago
Not really a friend is he/she? Contemplate the people around you to prevent another situation that involves betrayal. Virginity is nothing special love, its just a title of something women used to sell. Your body is sacred, and keep it safe from now on.. keep it for a guy you can trust. You made a mistake.. so what? Everyone makes mistakes. You can grow from this, move on and now you can descifer what to watch out for in the future. There are so many good men that will prize a girl like you. Heck, so many girls 2 months waiting is like a lifetime! Get out with some 'real' friends, keep yourself busy. Getting tested and going to a gyno wouldn't hurt just to be safe. Just go out, be a young woman and enjoy life to the fullest. You'll meet a respectable guy. :)
- SilverLv 41 decade ago
Well the unexpected down sides of the internet :) it could happen to all of us mate don't get your self worked out about it,women are very adept in deceiving so if it was really a woman to begin with.For instance he could also be faking the conversations with a few simple programs to what i end i dare not guess but it could not be pretty :P! Just be happy that you recognized the truth before it was to late it will serve you as a future warning ;p
- Anonymous1 decade ago
ohh dam!!!!!!!!! that sucks, but you should know that no one is as perfect as you described her. i couldn't really see the pictures because its blocked on my computer. because i'm, in school. (and so is monica. (another comment on here))
but yea. just forget her. she seems like a d!ck and she probably is one. i'm sorry that your heart got broken like it did. but everyone has their heart broken at sometime in their life. it's not impossible. its very common for most people and for others its less common.
and damm you type A LOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! that wasn't a question, that was a book! Dam!
but if your as good looking as you say you are, get out there. meet some girls you see in person. they're always a lot better!
best of luckk!
Source(s): happened to a friend of mine. except she actually fell for the guy and she went to meet him and he abused her and raped her. online dating sucks d!ck - 1 decade ago
Sorry mate, but there are mean people in the world. I'm sure you'll find the one, especially if you're outgoing. You're young, you have the rest of your life ahead of you, don't mope about this. Just forget you ever knew her, and move on. It'll be hard but rewarding when you do. Chin up.
- kaptainfelixLv 61 decade ago
Never 100% believe anyone you have any interaction with over the internet.
You need to see them on cam and even then they can be playing headgames with you.
Oh yeah......'jojo' - another cynical female creep that likes to use guys. There are a lot of them about. Beware
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I zoned out partway through your question but you could tell the people who's photos she stole and together you can get the police on the case. Since you'e spoken on the phone it should be pretty easy for the police to track her down and arrest her. Hopefully it will make the news!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
im sorry.xx but you know you should never get serious with anyone on the internet. for all you know they could be a perv or pretending to be a girl or something. Sorry but this was your fault, you felt for it. I used do the same on skype. I used to pretend i was into this guy because he sounded desperate then I broke the news that i was 14 hahahaha!! good luck xxx
- 1 decade ago
just buck up it happens to 2 out 10 people just move on in the future only talk to real girls i know its messed up but this supposedly girl ruined internet dating for you there is plenty of good looking real girls
Source(s): i got caught up b4 on tagged - 1 decade ago
get over her shes creepy like thats sick and twisted that she did that.... but also why would ask sum1 to be your gurlfriend if u never met her be4 for all you noe she couldve been a guy but you obviously wasn't thinkin, srry not tryin to be mean but its kinda common sense.