My moms mad at me.help???????

First, I'd echo what Chon said. It is sound advice.

What you could do to cheer your mom and step dad up:

Next time they leave to get groceries, sneak back into the room. Obviously you know how to card open the lock, so they cant keep you out. Then carefully unwrap the Christmas presents and fill then instead with sand. On Christmas Day, everyone will open their gifts. Except, instead or normal gifts, it will just be boxes and envelopes and gift bags of sand. Also, if the gifts were like a toy doll or something you could shape the sand into that with a bit of water. Anyway, if you do a good job with the sand, they will be so impressed with you, basically you can use their room anytime while they are gone.

Your mum may be mad because she wanted you to have a better life, if your mum was a young mum then she knows how hard life can be. Your mum is also probably disappointed that you did not use contraception and naturally she is worried what a baby will do to you both physically and mentally. Best thing you can do is talk to your mum, go through your options together, if you plan on keeping the baby you need to tell you mum so things can be worked out....and from personal experience they do not stay mad for long

tiffany!! don't you like the surprise of christmas? believe it or not, you will grow older and realize that you don't need to go snooping around for presents anymore...come on that's the whole spirit of christmas. And your mom is probably so bummed out too-she put a lot of time and effort and MONEY into those presents for you and the last thing she wanted was for you to see them before the big day. I'm assuming she had a lot of trust in you for her to leave the door unlocked in the first place, that trust has now diminished. I suggest you go apologize to your mom, tell her it was rude and childish for you to be in her room, and to be looking through all her stuff. I'm sure you would hate it if she was snooping around your room, right Tiffany? Obviously christmas is a very special time for family. When your step dad addresses the situation i would tell him that you would like to talk to your mom about this. Apologize to both of them and pray that you get those same presents you saw in her room!

Time heals all wounds. Give her some time (at least an hour, if not two) to cool off and settle down. Tell her you couldn't help yourself because you were so excited, but also say you know that it was a childish thing to do. Don't ratchet things up. Keep a cool head and keep your voice low and subdued.

You sneak into your moms room when she is not there to look for something your are not to be looking for then give her an attitude when you lock her out of her room? How would you feel if she sneaked into your room and went through your stuff and locked you out of your room then gave you an attitude about it?

I agree you do need "help". You need to grow up!

Well you are expecting your mother to not be pissed at you having gone into her room to look around? Has your mother no right to privacy? If she went into your room to poke around, would you be happy?

It seems to me that you are expecting your mother to be perfect whilst you can get away with nosing around in her stuff. I would be extremely pissed with my kids if they went poking around in my bedroom. Adults/parents have things they don't want their kids to see or to know about, things to do with their own private life and privacy. Just fixing the lock isn't enough, especially as you don't seem to have apologised for the lock or for the invasion of privacy.

What you do is you go up to your mother and apologise for invading her privacy and for going into a room which has nothing to do with you and in which you have no right whatsoever to be. You will also take it on board that in future you won't do this if you want to earn someone's trust and respect.

Tell your mom the truth, honesty it the best policy, but make it into a story too that makes it seem like you were trying to do something for her, like to see if your the presents you got her were as good as the ones you got her

Tiff, just go to your mom and tell her sincerely that you're very sorry and ask her what you can do to make it up to her. If you are really nice about it and sincere I think she'll cool off. It is important to sound like you are really sorry.

Good luck hon. I hope you don';t have to deal with that moron stepdad.

id just apologize as sincerely as possible and maybe she'll not yell or be mad at you. and when your step dad screams at you i'd try to half-think about other things in your head so it doesn't bother you as much, but still somewhat listen so if he asks you to repeat what he said or asks you a question you can still answer him. or just scream back, stick up for yourself, maybe they'll realize they shouldn't always result to screaming because it doesnt always help. goood luck hun.

Did you expect her to be pleased with you? You'll be lucky to even get a Christmas and not have your presents taken back.