28 Year Old Man wants to hang out with two 16 year old girls.?

Ahhhhh, come on!

My friend is 39 and he is going out with a 18 year old. They are so adorable and in love with each other.

Enjoy life but keep it legal.

1. He does not work for a law firm, he made that up (ask if you can telephone him at work).

2. He is not a graduate of Mcgill University. (He probably sells ice creams).

3. Wait until you are a few years older before you date 28 year old men.

I am 27 and there is no way that I would date a 16 year old girl.

To him you are nothing more than a sexual object. He probably does have a girlfriend or a wife, he is at least having sex with someone(maybe another 16 year old girl?). He is a predator and sees you as prey, any "relationship" you have with him will be an illusion.

He only wants to hang out with you to get in your pants.

Please do not get involved with this man. There is nothing good that can come out of a 28 year old man pursuing 16 year old girls. You already stated that it is odd that he doesn't have a girlfriend. He very well may. He's older, and telling you all about his education, good job, and obviously trying to impress you with his alleged accomplishments. Speak to your mother about this. She is your parent and let her handle this.

We men are attracted to beauty, in any age. But it sounds like he may try to seduce one or both of you. Nice 28 year old men do not put their selves in positions that could compromise their integrity. So after you and your friend take some precautions, enjoy the ice cream and movies.

Well, he's a bit old for you, but it really depends on whether you like him or not. And whether he has anything else in mind less innnocent than ice cream or a movie.

Lots of men prefer younger women, and frankly as you are both sixteen I don't see how he can be described as a paedophile (as an answer above suggests). You and your friend are not children.

Personally, I would think going for ice cream would be better than going to a movie. For one thing, you will have more time to talk and get to know each other, also it would be less expensive for him. An ice cream costs a lot less than a movie ticket.

My advice would be if he suggests anything more expensive, like a movie, you and your friend pay for yourselves. You don't want to feel under an obligation to a man who you know very little of. Moreover, paying for yourselves keeps it on more of a 'friends' basis rather than a 'date' basis.

Well, I wouldn't advice for it. He is 28, different life-experience, and he is definitely hitting on you two. Wise thing would be to avoid him altogether. Tell your mom. Nothing good can come from a 28 yo. hitting on 16 yo.s.

I'm guessing you re-posted this because you didn't like the response you got the last time. There is something incredibly wrong with him! RUN or be molested and he is a loser. Pedophiles seem very charming, it's called grooming in the field, he is not a nice person. Date someone your own age.

yes it is strange and it shows you've got your head screwed on that you've picked up on that because most younger girls would be too naive to see it- which is what older men are thinking when they approach a young girl, they think to themselves, I'll soon get into her pants because shes so young and stupid that she'll be blinded by my flattery- well you had him fooled so good on you, trust your own judgment, he's definitely weird!

Sounds like me trying to pick up some hott chicks.

Go out with him. Both of you should do him, at the same time.

There's obviously something wrong with him, so let him have some fun.

Let him dress up in a bear costume if he wants to. Don't judge.

Babies drinking alcohol is a serious problem, and needs to be stopped.

Watch our for Africans crossing the road, bye <3

I think its strange that your mom would invite such an obvious creep to her Christmas party.