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Whats up with Libra man?
im a libra also by the way
At the begining he was really flirty, would joke around with me alot. always wanted to hang out, and when we did we made out and had a good time. things were great i was really falling for him then he started to say he was busy and he said he wanted to hang out but he couldnt cause he had so much to do and he felt like i was waiting on him. so i told him maybe we shouldnt talk like that anymore, and he said he thought that would be better. i was hurt that he accepted my suggestion so easily. he continued to be friendly towards me, but continued with the distant behavior. we didnt talk for a few weeks after this, then on his b-day he had an emotional breakdown. i tried to comfort him, i told him how great he was. also i told him how much i liked him and how he hurt me. he said he really liked me to but had "some things he had to get over" (wat the hell does that mean?) then we didnt talk for almost 2 months (he was still single throughout this time) . Then we started speakin to each other again, huggin each other again. then mon. i sent him a message sayin that i had been thinkin of him and that i hoped everything was going well, and to have a great Christmas. I didnt expect a repsonse, but he did and said thank you so much. how are you and what have you been up to. i answered and also said that i had been really missin him. i guess that was a misatke cause he didnt response. I dont know what to do.
O.k um i dont constantly call, text, or any of that. im not the clingy type i hatdly ever see him and we havent talked in months so..
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- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
OMG =)...i love this...that first answer was DEAD on..must really be a true libra lol...okay im 2 days shy of a libra..im tech a virgo....but this is sooooooo true...when someone really likes me thats fine but when they start calling me all day and texting me constantly and calling me babe and cuddling when i come over i start to pull back..i lovvvve those things eventually but not at first.as soon as they stop calling or pay attention to someone else i am able to relax take off the pressure and asess my feelings...you can NOT rush a libra..we like the chase and its not really a choice we just function that way...we will get spooked if you rush into things...esp the libra men ;)..it takes a libra FOREVER and a day to decide if they like someone..its a delicate process that can not be tampered with ...its funny because this guy that is more or less just a "booty call" right now called me up today saying merry christmas eve..i miss you...you only answer when you want to whats up with that....i couldnt help but snicker in my head =) hes a libra boy and i like him soooo much there is just something so hypnotizing bout libras ;) we are sooo much a like and its so comfortable when we hang out..however its once a month when he calls..sometimes more but only once garunteed..which is OBVIOUSLY a booty call..we started out talking but then he slowly let it fall into just calling for a good night occasionally..so i thought fine thats where this one is going to be. If i didnt study signs and if i wasnt a sorta libra myself i wouldnt ever think it could eventually change but i know how to play with a libra...you dangle the bait...you have a long great talk you are very sweet and dont hold back your feelings..THEN...you dissapear...after all thats what he did......"you only answer when you want to..i miss you"....never asked me to come over..just calls to talk now..i mean we still hook up..but libra is a fling that can turn into something more..just do what im doing..act like a dude..even if it kills you to let it go to voicemail..if you dont he will..so play along untill he comes to his senses and stops dancing around the question.."do i like her..do i not like her.."
Source(s): sorrrry so long lol virgo sun-sep 21 libra rising libra moon - Left-TLv 71 decade ago
If you are a libra, you should ralize that Libra hate being run after. They are almost like Aries. If you give them too much attention, libra will take a few step back. If you give the person his space and he still cares for you, he will contact you. Give him breathing room but still give him some attention from a distance.
Just a thought :)
Source(s): Libra - Robert84Lv 61 decade ago
He just thinks you are going in too quick. Maybe it is a sign that he has caught onto the fact that you are serious now. Now the realisation that you have interested has hit him, it has occurred to him that he needs to think more first. Let him do this now, because it is better he does it now than later. Stay friends with him though so he knows you are not going to run away. If he is not interested it could be for a number of reasons but you only want to be with him if he is absolutely sure or it is a mistake for you both.
Source(s): Sun in Libra, Venus in Scorpio, Mars in Capricorn