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basco asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

Havent had my first kiss yet?

so basically im 18 and havent kissed a girl yet

im kinda looking for that perfect girl, it might sound lame but ya lol

someone that will care about me as much as i care about her

but im afraid that a girl wont accept me cuz of this

im pretty shy and a hardcore gamer, im not ugly or anything nor am i incredibly beautiful, im just an above average kind of guy i guess, i work out but im not buff, i just have a slim athletic body? lol if that makes sense

although i may be able to get to the hardest level on any game and beat it

i have no clue how to win a girls heart

im just wondering if its too late?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Your question is like a breath of fresh air! How nice that someone at your age hasn't already "been there done that" with everybody already.

    I think we girls like a guy that is just nice. Manly, clean, kind considerate. Whether you are a biker or a banker women all over the world even very beautiful ones don't always fall in love with the best looking man. It's very often the man that is nice, and has those other qualities I mentioned already.

    As far as kissing a girl goes, you'll know when the moment is right and then just move your face close to hers and zero in on her mouth and part your lips a little and press them to hers and move them around slightly.It will just happen naturally don't worry. Of course be sure to keep your teeth flossed and brushed and keep some mints in your pocket too.

    I wish you all the best.

    Source(s): Life.
  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    People make kissing out to be a big deal-especially at your age these days. It shouldn't be a big deal at all. Most people just kiss because of peer pressure or feel they have to to be considered "cool" Just ignore it. There is no law that says you have to kiss or be kissed by a certain age. It should be different for everyone. You will kiss when you are absolutely ready and the time is right and it should be with someone who you love so that it is more special. Your boyfriend should not make a huge deal out of it, and if he does and tries to pressure you into kissing him and you dont want to, then don't do it. I'm 19 and I still havent kissed anyone yet, and I'm not ashamed of it either.

  • 1 decade ago

    I'm almost 18 as well, and i've never kissed a guy. I hang out with guys all the time, and all but i've never actually kissed a guy. I've been close a couple of times tho...

    my views on this is that when ever the perfect person comes along then, its not gonna matter whether or not you've kissed someone before, All that will matter is your feelings about this person.

  • 1 decade ago

    too late?? my goodness no...unlike others who are going thru all this drama at 13, or in some cases, 12, you have had time to really think and decide what kind of a girl you want..and it's not unusual not to have a clue as to go about meeting and dating a girl...but first of all, you need to get up and get out...unless you can meet a girl on an online gaming site or something like that..don't be scared..get out there!!

  • 1 decade ago

    omg no its not too late i got my first kiss when i was 16... dont worry i know this guy who is 25 and he still hhasn'tbeen kissed dont worry bout and i wish guys were more like u ... u know like most of the guys just go to any girl and kiss the living heck out of them... dont worry ur berly eighteen u still have a long way to go.. and the longer u wait the better u will enjoy your first kiss... goo luck

    Source(s): myself
  • 1 decade ago

    Are you nuts! really that is so sweet and most nice girls will be relieved to know that and there are girls out there just like you that are waiting for the right person, I think its really romantic good for you

  • 1 decade ago

    first of all dont brag about it

    second of all dont spend too much time looking for the perfect one

    b/c there is no such thing as perfect, everyone makes mistakes.

    and lastly, if ur gonna be spending too much time on those games, sweetheart u ain't getting no girl.

  • 1 decade ago

    haha no worries. I feel the same, I'm 18 too and have never had a boyfriend. email me or something? do you have a facebook perhaps? email/message me. (: I think it's b/c I'm rather shy around guys, esp. ones that I like/think are cute

  • 1 decade ago

    don't be embarrassed about anything, you don't necessarily have to say anything about having not kissed a girl when the time comes. Don't go nuts about making your first kiss with the perfect person, just enjoy the experience no matter who its with. hope it helped :)

  • 1 decade ago

    based on the description, you're just more mature than other guys and prefer quality to quantity and, i promise, that's a good thing.

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