What do I do with my time/life?

Life has gotten endlessly dull. I commute 45-60 minutes back and forth from college. Any one I can be friends with all live on campus which is why I usually don't bother to drive up there. My old friends have moved away. No one is accepting my job applications(applied to over 30 different places). I somehow manage to keep myself occupied with playing video games, the piano, reading, and facebook. But its not enough. Im not making freinds, finding dates, or keeping myself socially satisfied. I go to club's but all I see is whores, drug addicts, and people with their dates. I keep trying to do the stuff that kept me happy in highschool, but the only thing I get out of that is people telling me to grow up.

Ladies and gentlemen,

I've ,perhaps, reached a precipice in my life and the climb is difficult. Which is why I, an eager 18 year old, turn to you, members of yahoo answers, people less frail than I, to beg for advice on growing up, finding happiness, finding love, finding freinds, and finding success.