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there is this guy i like at work?

i like this guy (at work) but i dont want any relationship with him as i have my own bf but i just wants us to spend a lil time together u know and just tok, but there thing is i am so scared of everything coz i dont want any office politics. plz i need tips on how to kip this professional.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Personally I'm dead against any kind of 'friendships' between men and women at work. The problem is that if it goes wrong you have to still work with this guy, with everyone in the office knowing what you've been up to.

    A lot of people might answer your question saying that it's not possible what you are asking here. Either you want to date this guy, or work with him. I don't think you know what you want from this guy and so is it fair of you to lead him on?

    Like someone else has said, if your bf finds out, what's he going to think. He's not going to believe you just wanted some platonic relationship. Deep down, is that really what you want?

    If I were you I'd leave this situation where it is, stick with your bf, but if you aren't happy with your bf find someone else to date but not from work. Believe me things can go badly wrong at work and you can end up having to leave due to public opinion!

    Good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    ask him out for a few drinks whats the worst that could happen. and if your boyfriend says what are you doing going out with him.. just say everyone at works going out for a few drinks together.. gd luck doll..x

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    are you ok with your BF dating other girl? This guy at work gets you wet and you like teasing him!!! You will end up banging him!!!!! your not fooling us!!!!

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