Guys I have kinda a Curious Question ... Would You date me based on every thing i tell u Just wondering?

Hi Miss Scorpio

I am also a Scorpio and I know how they feel. Very deep, sincere but can become dangerous if they get hurt!

Well I believe you can have a guy want to go out with you, the key is to know what to ATTRACT them. It's great not to be scared of showing who you are but at the same there is a way to do it.

Why do some women always have men pursuing them, no matter what their age? I have a friend who is 74 who continually has interesting successful men asking her out. When I grow up, I want to be like her. She has sparkle. She has charm. She is a man magnet.

Recently, I asked a popular man magnet what some of her strategies were for attracting men, and research substantiates many of her points. Here are five secret tips to help you attract the man you want:

* Stand in the middle of the room.

Whenever you go to a party, try standing in the center of the room. (Don't hunch your shoulders, slouch, or wear a pair of shoes that hurt your feet so much you can't stand to stand.) Move around a little, talk with people near you, but if you want to be in a position to choose who you want to meet, never sit down. Stand smack dab in the middle of the crowd. When you see someone interesting, move near them--gracefully-- and start a conversation.

* Stand at the corners of the bar.

If you are at a bar, pub, or nightclub, staying at the corners of the bar is a good position. It's easier to meet people there. Bartenders tend to talk to the people at the corners also. The worst place to be seen is hanging out near the wall or sitting at a table or booth with other people. You are more difficult to approach if you are in a huddle with others. Go places with friends, but break away from them periodically and talk to people on your own.

* Look your best.

This may sound too obvious, but you never know where or when you are going to meet someone. Never go out of the house without looking your best. Even if you are headed to the gym or a run around the block, put on some lipstick and comb your hair. Know what colors you look good in, and wear attractive clothes in your best shades. Men are attracted to pink-peach. That color is flattering to most skin tones. People are also attracted to you when you are wearing the color(s) of your eyes. (You have multiple colors in your eyes--choose clothes that include one of those colors.)

* Be aware of your body language.

Body language is everything. Smile a lot, look people in the eyes, and when you see someone you are interested in, tilt your head, drop your eyes, and then look back at him. This may sound contrived, but it helps to know what subliminal messages are being sent by your actions. Apparently, giving your hair a slight flip is also an attraction signal, as well as stroking the inside of your arm or your neck. If a man is standing across the room, this is one way to let him know that you would be interested in talking to him.

* What not to do.

Attractive women know not to: talk about themselves non-stop, fold their arms, chew gum, pick at their nails, jiggle their foot, or crunch ice. All of this behavior suggests anxiety, frustration, or poor manners. Also--don't talk about your Ex. That is a major turn off.

When you go out and see attractive single men you want to meet, practice the above five secrets. Being a man magnet simply means that you are in control of the outcome of your evening, your week, and your life. Enjoy the adventure!

At the same time, given the new era of the Internet, I agree that online dating can be the right bet. So I have a couple of advice that might be helpful too.

It's important to define success in your online dating endeavors. Many women go into dating with expectations that are too lofty and this can doom many relationships before they get started. As a women it's important you don't try to rush things or you can quickly turn off your dating partner (this advice also applies for men). In the world of dating, it's best to remain light hearted and casual at first - give things a few weeks and probably months before you try to get more serious with your significant other.

Filling out your profile is very important in the online world. You would be amazed at how many men stop and take the time to read your profile. Of course pictures are important - put your best foot forward, but back that up with some real content and substance. Don't be afraid to put your favorite books online (go easy on the Danielle Steele), it will be worth it to show that you are intelligent, charming and of course witty. Follow this simple and time tested advice and you're sure to find just the right date in your next online adventure!

If you visit the site below, you will find more tips, skills, and insight on dating, relationships, singles, and love!

I'm not a guy but I'd like to answer this anyway...

Your question screams insecurity and from the sound of it, you're a very attractive girl with a lot of hobbies and interests that makes you even more attractive. You don't need to post a question like this because if you haven't heard it before you're very pretty and you sound like a girl that any guy should appreciate dating.

If you are thinking then "why" don't you have a boyfriend, well, what can I say? Everything happens in it's own time. A guy who is interested in you will come to you, will make the first move, will try to win you over... not the other way around. I hope this helps and I hope you don't feel that I'm being condescending. I just really felt a need to respond to your question.

Well I'm 17, so you're about my age, and you really sound like a smart and attractive girl, but I don't know about your personality and interests. I'm not really into the whole emo scene. I like country music, but I do like the classic rock. Also, I'm not too good with the reading and science, so I don't know if we'd connect on that level.

You sound really nice, I'm sure you'll find someone you can really connect with! I just don't think a country boy is who you'd be compatible with :P

ur pretty...and don't worry, u have plenty of time to date. just work on u first, like yourself confidence and when u start dating and u get dumped u won't feel so bad becuz u know u know u r pretty and won't have problems finding someone else

I probobly would. You have many of the same personality triats I do (I'm not emo, just a nerd/vintage punk mix) and our musical tastes are a bit different, but close.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, Scorpio. It's what's inside that counts. Both those statements are true. One day, you will believe it. Peace and love.

You seem cool, but I'm a dork; so I probably wouldnt have the heart to ask ya out in real life anyways.

Yeah my friend Emmo is really interested. U got his attention. Too bad hes in the dominican republic. Good luck tho

You're just like every other wannabe skater/scene/emo/whatever you're labeling yourself girl. There's nothing "different" about you.

thats u talking about u, remember just cause u say it, doesnt mean anything, ur own personal judgement of urself will always be good, u also havent listed any of ur downsides, u dont need approval from others