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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsMarriage & Divorce · 1 decade ago

My Husband is never turned on anymore Help !!!?

My Husband is never turned on anymore it started like 6 month ago. He is can't get turned on from anything and now he is having a lot of short memory loss. I have no idea what going on and our intimate life is hurting badly because of it. Can anyone help ?

Update:

We are both in our early 20's and he doesn't think i'm fat or ugly it isn't just me he is not turned on my its everything and we have discussed it and we have no idea what wrong

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Maybe something is draining all of the testosterone out of his body. Testosterone is the driving force behind men being men. It causes us to be horny, competitive, strong, bold, and even smart. Even if you are fat ugly, and smelly, every now and then he will want a piece. Is he under a lot of stress? Are you an emasculating woman? Have you recently had children? Is he over 30? A yes answer to any could be a sign that he is at risk of having a ball breaker ruin his manhood.

    Source(s): I read an article about this in Men's Health, and saw an episode of Nat. Geo. Explorer go over this subject.
  • Misty
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Could be early onset Alzheimers. Have him diagnosed by a neurologist about the short term memory loss first and put the sexual stuff second. If he is cleared by a neurologist, have him go to a sexual counselor that counsels only in the area of sexual dysfunction.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    Your husband could possibly have a bench warrant against him - since he did not appear in court. When the police come - invite them in - and show them where he is at. Let him spend a night or two in jail - will be good for him. Was a stupid thing to do for such a petty charge.

  • 1 decade ago

    take him to the doctor,but first i would sit down with him and tell him how you feel and ask what is wrong and what can you do to help,tell him you love him and you are there for him and you will be by he's side through the good and bad times.but please goto the doctor for a check up just say we are both due for a check up.best of luck and i hope all is ok.

    um maybe you both need some spice in your life,goto or lookup on the net like http://www.funtasia.com.au/

  • 1 decade ago

    Stress

  • Truth
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    well it could be a health problem..or many be it is stress. I know when i am stressed over something.. sex is not very high on my list of important things . You did not state his age that may also could be part of the problem or has past health problems that are catching up to him.. you just need to set and talk and if he want to share let him but don't force.

  • 1 decade ago

    Short term memory loss is what men use, to cover up conflicting stories when managing several women.

    Source(s): men and women
  • 1 decade ago

    He is still cheating, just not having to deal with a divorce. (I read your other comment.) Church is just a cover to keep you and life the way it was, but he is with someone else. You do need to divorce, unless you have kids and it is complicated.

    Source(s): life experience, by the way, is he into porn? Mine is, and I can't trust him either. He will lie to cover it up, but I know him by now.
  • 1 decade ago

    Seek marrage council from a local professional, not the internet.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    maybe you could lose some weight or try to dress up a little

    or you could try looking him in the eyes once in a while,

    or maybe you could stop putting personal information that he thought was private up on the internet?!

    Source(s): (thats right honey ive got an account too, and we're finished)
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