My girlfriend is quite when we talk on the phone?

Theres a good chance she just doesnt feel like you trust her. I kind of had a similer situation with my girl a few months back. It had to do with an ex though. But the concept can still apply. If the guys arent "gay" then they shouldnt be there when youre not there. It has nothing to do with trust. Its about whats appropiate and whats not. Its also about respect. You know youre not gonna cheat on her with any of your female friends, but out of respect and whats appropiate, im pretty sure you dont have your female friends over when shes not around. This needs to be emphasied to her. Let her know you trust, her but it makes you feel uncomfortable when they are over and youre not around. Put her in that position and ask her how she would feel. When I did that to my girl, she saw where i was comin from, cuz she said she would actually feel the same way. After that she understood, that it wasnt that i didnt trust her, its just that I didnt feel comfortable with that, and it was inappropiate. Hope it works out with her.

Just bring it up to her and see what she says. There's no way for us internet folks to know if it's her personality, if she's phone-shy, or if you really bore her, so the best course of action if it really bothers you is to ask her about it. If she gets mad, then you'll still have the satisfaction of knowing you did the right thing. Or maybe she's mad at you and you need to have an honest discussion about it.

Also, you shouldn't let other people telling you what your GF should or shouldn't do. In the end, there is a reason why she's dating you and not those other people, and the fact that she chose you should be enough of a reason to trust her. If she does cheat on you, oh well, Better believe that those things never stay hidden for long (also, what goes around comes around!), and you can break up with a clear mind.

She is pissed the f*** off! when girls are quiet like that and give you short answers you did something seriously wrong! You gotta fix it quick! I'm guessing she felt like you were crossing a border into being controlling by telling her tha she shouldn't have had those friends over. And when she said "dont worry about them going over anymore" what she really meant was "alright.. this is just blackmail so when you do something to make me mad you bettter watch out."

So... if you trust her... which hopefully you do.. let her have her little guy friends... thats my advice

She has just figured out that she likes her guy friends more than she likes you. Your only options are as follows:

1- instantly become a much more outgoing, personable, fun guy so she would rather be with you... and also, spend more time with her at her house so she doesn't want them

2- let her bring the guys over to her house, WITH AN AGREEMENT- that one of your best friends goes over with them and basically just hangs out with them, to make sure she doesnt hook up with any of the guys. that should seem fair, right? if she doesn't agree, DUMP HER ON THE SPOT cuz she is without a doubt cheating. (unless you only mentioned a friend(s) that EVERYONE hates.)

3- Dump her on the spot... OR get dumped on the spot... if you don't do 1 or 2.

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Basically, I suggest trying option #2 first, while at the same time working on 1. If that doesn't work, just let the guys go over without your friend there, and just make her promise she isnt kissing them or getting sexual at all. And if she keeps this grumpiness up, dump her, cuz shes about to dump you then

Don't call her on the phone! Text her instead or chat on aim, yahoo, msn etc NOT EVERYONE LIKES TALKING ON THE PHONE. If you don't like it when she has her guy friends over and she doesn't respect that then its time to move on. You should be with someone that respects you and your feelings. You also need to have more trust in her. If she liked one of her guys friends then why would she wait this long to act on it.

Now let me help you with your spelling/grammer.

"There" (the word you should've used) is used to refer to a place e.g. there she is

"Their" indicates possesion e.g. the ball is theirs

Quite means completely or wholly

Quiet (the word you should've used) means silence

Yea, she's mad & wants you to give in & say it's ok for the guys to be there. If there's other girls there too, than it's not as big of a deal, but if it's just guys, that's not right. Just keep trying to talk to her, ask her out to do something, make her remember how fun you are & why she likes being with you.

She did something she didn't want to do. She is not happy about it, but knows you will be. She doesn't want to talk about it because she will get upset, and she is not happy with you or any of her friends who told her she needed to do it. She'll get over it. Leave her be, if you keep poking at her she will blow up.

mabey its not you, i might be something els. you never no!

ask her how she feels and why she is acting like this!

shes your girlfriend make her feel comtibale in who she is, not pick on her

for having her guy friends over, and in a relaiship its all

about trust. be honset to her and how you feel.

do something before you lose her.

good luck!

i am the same way n=maybe u got to make her feel conf.. u know ask her why she dont like to talk much and all that

No i think she is made at her friends