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sexual question.....?
my bf and i wanna take things to the next level by going a bit more sexual activities and such. we have talked about him fingering me and/or eating me out. which is safer? is there any thing bad about either of those that would hurt me in the long run or anything? (i am obviously new to certain sexual activities, and he sorta is too). its really embarrassing to ask this stuff, so pleez be serious when answering. thanx.
5 Answers
- Little PrincessLv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
If he has long sharp fingernails, I don't know if I'd recommend letting him finger you. Also as long as he knows not to poke the wrong parts or to try to latch onto something and pull it out (as you can guess, that's kind of extreme).
Having him eat you is always a good idea. As long as he knows enough that it's mostly tongue and not biting (again, that's kind of extreme).
As far as safety, you can spread disease still. You're not as likely since there isn't as much exchange of body fluids. But if either of you have any open sores, it's probably best to hold off till they heal up.
And don't worry about the embarrassment of asking here. It's not like xxjupiterxx is your real name. (or is it?)
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Fingerbanging is safer - really no risk there. Oral sex is a tad bit more dangerous for you since you can contract herpes from him having a cold sore, but it's really rare, and you can obviously tell if he has one or not. Neither will hurt you in the long run, so just do them and enjoy it. Make sure you return the favor for him too :)
- 1 decade ago
they are both pretty safe as long as his hands are clean nails are groomed and he don't bite it crap outta you.... i would start with what you feel most comfortable with but for real just go for it and if you don't enjoy it try something else but it sounds like your a little young so just keep it at that level for a while as long as possible really... sexual activity doesn't really become "dangerous" or "unsafe" until it is full on intercourse then you have to worry about std getting pregnant things like that
- 1 decade ago
no eating you out and fingering you are pretty safe eating you out is oral sex so you could be at higher risk of a STD but, both are very pleasureful.
a favorite game of mine is skittles: it's when u put a skittle any where on the girls body and the guy has to get it with his tongue. it's really fun.
- 1 decade ago
well with "eating out" you CAN get an STD. I would suggest just making out, since you sound very young. and just remember ALWAYS use protection when you are doing anything sexual =)
