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help with a reallly annoying friend!?
okay, so this friend i have, we became close at camp and hung out after a lot. But now she is reallllly getting annoying and calling me and texting me NON-STOP! ive tried making up excuses (like im grounded) but nothing is working, she barely has any friends, so i feel bad ditching her. please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
6 Answers
- 1 decade ago
If she is so clingy she needs to be told. You may need to rehearse this since it is obviously distressing. Get her on her own and sit down with a coffee. Then slowly and gently say that
on the whole she is a nice / pleasant / good person, but that you cannot accept the amount of time she requires from you as you have your own life. Tell her you don't mean anything personal and you don't mean to criticize, and it isn't that you don't like her, but that she probably has this problem with others because everyone needs space.Explain that the best way to change things, because she really is a nice person, is to understand how friendships work.If she limits the amount of times she calls and will wait until friends call her, nobody will feel pressured to change their own schedules. Suggest once a week is good to chat, for maybe 30 minutes. Tell her you want her to be happy and you do care, but she must do her part if she wants genuine friendship.
After you have said your piece, give her a quick hug and say you have an appointment with (whatever) and leave her to think about it.
If you can't bring yourself to talk to her, copy the middle part of this letter and post it to her.
Good luck,
Koala
- jdLv 61 decade ago
You are going to have to be honest with her. Tell her that you don't have to stop being friends but that you need some space. Unless you put the brakes to this, it will never stop. good luck.
- 1 decade ago
Haha, what i would do is tell her offfff.
Be like "shut the crapp upp, your so annoying i'm sooo sorry but leave me alonee(:"
Haha but you sound like the preppyy sensetive typee so i'd probb delete the numberr/block itt(:
Hope that helppss <3
Source(s): psshhht idkk. - ?Lv 51 decade ago
You just need to tell her. If she's hurt by that, well, that's not something you have entire control over.
- 1 decade ago
tell her that you need " time" alone and tell her 2 give u personal space!!!
If not dump her!!! It's not your fault that's she's so freakin clingy!!!
