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monika J asked in HealthWomen's Health · 1 decade ago

A question from those girls who go for sex with their BF before marriage?

Were u aware what shall be the result of this sex

If u got pregnant what shall be the position of ur parents in society

Can u face ur friends and relations

What name this society will give u

Who will marry u

How will u face the queries when this child will ask from u what u will say

When u do not have answer of these questions why u go for sex before marriage ?

Update:

mainly the question is for indian girls

it has a bit informative value too

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    i given my suggestion to many peoples here past from 2 years.

    in this world no one listen or answer to ur question properly, i have seen many many peoples in life.

    Thanks for care & advice on girls espeacially on indian girls.

    Source(s): i noticed many girls asking the answers like i had sex with my bf, i had sex with some one unknown person. having deseese like HIV /AIDS ECT and scared, worried and thinking wat to do.in past 2 years no one single person ask such a question in a private message.You are great by nature.simply im think whether we are human beigh or animal. animals dont have sense like human.but humans are worst than animals in sex matters, all of us lets try to behave like humans atleast. shall make proud to be an indian. additinal details im male 24 still virgin JAI HIND
  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    It's good that you're waiting till marriage, she should respect that and maybe you should talk to her about why you want to wait and give her some reason to trust you. There are girls who want to wait till marriage too but not many, I didn't wait till marriage and every girl gets the urge to do things, it's just natural. It's better, if you're waiting till marriage, to find another girl who's waiting till marriage too. That way you'll both have the same experience and you wont be the only one who held out. Plus it says a lot about each other's self control, which is a very good choice.

  • Dar
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    1.) Yes.

    2.) Uh, the same? My sex life isn't societies business.

    3.) Yes, why not?

    4.) "Normal"

    5.) My boyfriend

    6.) What are they asking?

    7.) It happens.

  • 1 decade ago

    Enjoying is good because life has to go happy. But ensure, u don't need Doctor later on to save ur face. Aborting a unborn foetus is inhuman. To keep the human values alive, emotions alive and ur family prestige glowing, follow safe sex procedures.

    Break the orthodox rules of indian society with intelligence behind that else once caught, u r convicted forever. Indian society never forgives but gives pain to sufferers.

    vkp

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i have a baby and i'm pregant again and i'm engaged to d fella hu made me pregant, my family and friends were happy for me, i had sex before i was married because i am in a 8 year relationship and we wanted to have a baby and start a family then get married...xxx

  • 1 decade ago

    first of all i will suggest you to know your boy friend well. yes of course to have sex is a thirst but still you should know your BF well.

  • 1 decade ago

    Okay I'm a guy so i can't really answer this liek you want people to,

    but my sister got pregnant at 21 years old before she as married. My family and I supported her no matter what. She still has the same friends and relations. The father of the kid turned out to be a abusive douche bag and she has since moved on. Now she is engaged to a great guy for her and he loves my nephew like a father would. My nephew is 5 years old and ahead of all the other kids in his K class. Nobody called her a ***** or anything like that for having a kid.

    So my question to you is who do you think you are to try and instill fear in people who are sexually active.?

    Here is something better, promote SAFE SEX because we are not in the days anymore where being abstinent is normal. It has been proven that kids will not listen if you tell them "dont do it." If you simply say, be safe and tell them about what resources they have like a planned parenthood center they will be safe. There needs to be evolutions in society to deal with the new norms. We are not in the 50's anymore where you wait to get married to have sex.

    Any young girl or guy who chooses to have sex, be safe

  • 1 decade ago

    Sorry, religion means next to nothing to me, so in society they call me by my name or ma'am or miss, my friends and family are a hearty bunch who know the joys of being young. And a child ? That's why protection was invented hunny ! I do not believe in marriage and never plan to be married, it's a choice and I shouldn't have to wait until marriage, sex is a healthy part of life and of a relationship when using protection methods and getting yourself tested.

    I'm human, humans are mammals, mammals are animals, animals aren't bound by a "god" they exist on instincts, prey drive, fight and flight. Methinks you need to get back to your baser instincts ;)

  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    What year is it where you are?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    omg are you the new preacher on this site?

    Well let me tell you;we can do fine without you.

    For every situation is a good solution believe me.

    Planets.

    Source(s): Biology degree
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