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Would you dump him over these things?
Dating for 7months, thinking about breaking up. I'm 32, he's just shy of 34.
He has not met any of my friends or family, although asked several times. Even blew off Xmas at my sisters since he suddenly had a tummy ache!, cancelled when he should have already been there. I have met his family, some several times, and I have even met and spent a lot of time with his friends. ** He gets very moody, a lot, out of no where will kind of snap at you ** I question if he really graduated college, on LinkedIn it says graduated in 2001, facebook says 1999, his mother also said he didn't graduate although she was a little tipsy at the time. ** He does not kiss me like a boyfriend should, I only get pecks, when I try for more I get told he doesn't feel like it ** He's the first guy I've been with that it seems that sex is not that important to him (I know he's not getting it from somewhere else, so he's not cheating) just he prefers it in the morning, and we don't live together so that is an issue ** He's not romantic at all, we'll cuddle on the sofa and all, but in 7mos, not a single flower or even a card. **
On a side note, he does try to please me. Pretty much has said if I want him to do anything he would. As in if I wanted him to get doors for me he would, if I didn't like his goatee anymore then he'd shave it off.
4 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
he sounds like he could turn into a really big jerk down the line. I think you should break up with him. Either that or lay down all of things that he does that bothers you. If he cares about you enough then he will change those things. If he has no desire to change them, then break up with him. Just use that as your last shot and find out what he really feels for you. If his love for you is strong then possibly he just needs a wake up call. A lot of relationships go bad because there is no communication. So talk to him, and see what happens. :)
- 1 decade ago
Yes I would dump him over those things. I dated a guy who I met all his friends but he always had an excuse not to meet mine. There are way too many red flags going on here. Is this really someone you want to give any more of your time too? I do not think so. New Year - new man. Ditch him.
- LeiaLv 61 decade ago
He's passing the time with you until he meets someone better... This is not normal behavior for someone who's been dating you for 7 months! This is 30 years of marriage stuff!
