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Why does my 2 yr old g/d act like this?

Hi I have a Grand daughter who is 2. I keep her on the weekends while her parents work. She is a great child Never into trouble never cries or throws a fit. Even when its bedtime she gets in her bed with no problems. Anytime she does act up like not picking up toys or something like that (very rare) she gets put in time out.

My son is a very very good daddy to her. and she is a Daddy girl. Her parents also put her in time out at home when she does not behave. They do work A lot but her dad is home 2 days per week plus in the late evenings. Here is the problem. Anytime Her parents walk in esp. her dad No matter what she was doing or how she was acting she instantly starts running to him to pick her up (he does and loves on her) and then cries and throws a fit the whole rest of the time they are here. Even if they bring her to someplace like for Christmas we could not enjoy ourselves for her throwing a fit and crying and throwing fits. And when they are around she acts like she doesn't know any of the rest of us.

I cant get over it she is like 2 different kids completely when with us alone and when they are around. They do put her in time out and try talking to her but nothing works. I have even tried to talk to her before they get there to tell her that i expect her to behave and that mommy and daddy like to see her smile not cry but it doesn't work. any ideas on why she does this and how to fix it? And now to top it off she has a new baby sister.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    i agree, i think they need to ignore her fits, and make a point of giving her lots of positive attention and more quality time. but it might also be the terrible two's, she is likely testing them (and they being mom and dad she's more comfortable testing them than you)

  • 1 decade ago

    I agree, she is not getting enough attention from them therefore she is acting out in order to get the attention needed. They seem to speak to her and confront her when she acts out and she enjoys the attention. If you feel that she does get the attention needed then her parents need to stop giving her attention when she asks like that. They can put her in time out bu they need to only tell her once why she is going there and how long she will be there, if she gets up then they need to not say a word and place her there and walk away each time she gets up until the time is up.

  • Jackie
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    It sounds like she needs more quality time alone with her parents only.

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