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girls and guys (teens perferably): guy trouble!?
i need to go to a school dance with this guy but when i talk to him or any guy i turn kindof mean like i use sarcasm alot and stuff and i dont want to make him think im a *****. i also cant make eye contact when i talk to him or other guys! wat can i do to make me not a such a *****-spaz and make me act more like myself?
3 Answers
- warneal69Lv 61 decade agoFavorite Answer
Well, your on the right track. You've identified that you have a problem in that your using sarcasm to deflect having to talk about your feelings. (people usually do this when they're afraid that their feelings will be rejected by other people) (that you have trouble with making and maintaining eye contact only supports this theory)
If you want to be "more like yourself" when your around guys, then just start treating guys like you treat your best friends.
And FYI, guys are twice as scared of being rejected by you then you are of them.
- 1 decade ago
just relax and act like yourself, if you have to, pretend he is a girl, im just like you and i think itll help if you be yourself and pretend hes a girl...
