My husband has a facebook profile and removed me as his friend b/c of a comment that i made.?

I would be very hurt and upset about it, but maybe it has allot to do with how your coming across to him. there should have been another better way of dealing with this than doing something that would hurt you and make you not trust him. This is a man who doesn't like confrontation.

For him to have the boldness to remove you when he is the one who is flirting online means that he is controlling and you are allowing it. Most caring men would have at least tried to make an excuse as to why they were flirting like "oh, I was just kidding - we always kid like that, etc, etc". They have SOME respect for their spouses even if they are flirts. Instead he deleted YOU and not HER???? There's a serious problem here. He knows you won't do anything about him mistreating you, because you've allowed it for so long, and now its a pattern. It will take awhile to break, but you must start if you want to be respected like you should.

Your husband is wrong for commenting on her picture in that manner. I don't think you were wrong because I think that's disrespectful only because of the add on," I didn't see all that..." well the damn too but he needs to be respectful of you even when you aren't around. The fact that he deleted you as his friend would piss me off because it seems like he has something to hide now. Sounds like you two need to have a discussion about computer etiquette.

I would say that he is wrong for doing things like that. Secrets are never good for a marriage. Keeping you out of his account means he has something to hide. He is just mad because he got caught.

He deleted you because he didn't want you to see other things that he was saying.

You should be very upset about this. He should not be saying these things to other women.

Maybe if you did not try and controll who can be on his profile and who he is allowed to talk to then maybe he would have kept you on there.......And like one said stop looking for reasons to end your marriage

This question made me LOL!

Wow, that is so wrong & sucks so bad!!

Yeah, I'd be just a little p***ed to say the least.

he didn't bang her because he would not have said, i didn't see all that when u were stationed here. I don't understand why people marry people they don't trust!!!!! Stop looking for thing to end your marriage!!!

your husband needs to get his priorities straight. he married you, not facebook. get some counseling, it might help if he is willing to go.

Sigh..