does the first time hurt?

no.

Maybe a 7? The #1 tip is that you need to be like incredibly wet your first time. Make sure he fingers you and goes down on you first. I also would say you should be on top so you're in control of how much of him you take, Have fun!

Ummm.. well I'm a virgin as well, so I'm not too sure either. I think it doesn't hurt as bad as everyone says it will. I think it's at least bearable. The only tips I know on how to make it painless is to let him finger you first and work your way up to something bigger until you can accommodate his size. Sorry, that's all I have..

it depends on a lot of factors. first how big is he? if he's huge it will hurt more than if he's small. second have you ever had anything in there before like a tampon or a vibrator? if you've never had anything in there before it might hurt more. you should be on top during the first time. it gives you more control. make sure you take your time and use some lube.

Well if your man really cares, he will go slow for you, at least, and respect that you want to stop if it's hurting...

But, a good way is foreplay. Have him finger you first, and that way you will be more wet and it will go in easier. Also, use lube if you can. Or a lubricating condom.

Maybe try to stretch it out a little first.

Nothing to worry about, the hurt itself is going to pleasant and you may like to have it again and again. Just keep your mind on the act and feelings and not the hurt, other sensations are much more powerful and unique than any feeling called hurt.

Heck Yes. Stuff breaks down there and you bleed. It's about a six the first time, but gets better each time and feels great in the end.

well my first time didn't hurt as much as i was expecting, considering the stories i was told. just make sure you're comfortable and relaxed, if you're tense it would probably make it hurt. for me, it only hurt at first and i would say it's around a 6.

have fun (;

It depends how much foreplay and how aroused you are! The more it hurts less. Just relax and keep it loose there! Your partner needs to be gentle also. Have fun!

be sure to use lube.

also be sure to stay relaxed because if you tense up the vaginal walls tense up too which can make it even more painful.

my first time... he went in half way, popped my cherry (i bled) and that was all i could handle. the second time i tried it i had regular sex and it was only mildly uncomfortable.

so tell your boyfriend to be gentle and go slow.

depends a lot on if you're comfortable and relaxed and ready to do it. it could be a 0, it could be a 7, or it could be in between.