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Friend liked girl, girl likes friend, I like girl, she likes me also, Advice?!?

my best friend since 3rd grade (and were now juniors in high school) liked a girl and the girl liked him back but they never went out because he wasn't allowed yet. Now she thinks that he no longer likes her. Which may be true but I don't know know for sure, we are good friends but we don't really talk about girls. Now she is definitely interested in me and I am interested in her too but I would never do anything to hurt mine and my friend's friendship. I should probably confront my friend at tell him whats going on, how do a go about doing that?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    look i think u should tell your friend the best part about being best friends is honesty

    and if u violet that then u loose him

    and frankly you dont deserve him if u lie to him

    that girl is not worth a long time friendship

    look ure friend might be upset and might be hurt that she decided to move on with u but sonner or later he will realize that if he was meant to be with that girl he would be with her ..and he will also realize what a good friend you are for being honest

    sometimes the truth hurts but its better to suffer now then to find out later by someone else

    Source(s): i was ure friend ...my friend never told me and well when she did it was too late me and her are no longer friends because a real best friend would never do that ...she should of been honest i would have accepted the truth
  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    I think either one is correct but unfortunately it depends on the girl. Some read too much into a guy's actions whereas others would think that you are just a respectful, good mannered guy. I've assumed both especially if I really like a guy and sometimes, I might not have thought of an interest in him until he did something like that and it swept me off of my feet only for me to find out that he was just being polite and not interested at all. So tread carefully on actions like that. I think you could probably get away with treating her casually (like not opening the door, etc) and still be respectful.

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