how does this keep happening?

This reminds me of when i was in school haha and I still miss it!!

Im going to give you some advice that helped me

out in the long run,

and has made me a more likeable person,

a person that everyone likes to be around.

I had "friends" who were a friend one day

and not a friend the next.

Personally,

those are not friends.

I think yes,

it could be jealousy.

All girls have SOMETHING theyd like to change about themselves,

and maybe you have something they wish they had.

I noticed that when I was happy-go-lucky,

did my own thing,

and didnt care who joined (but being grateful when someone did ;)

that EVERYONE wanted to be around me.

Dont talk behind peoples backs (not saying you do)

and definitely keep your opinions to yourself,

no matter what the topic of conversation may be.

If someone voices their opinion,

and look to you for acceptance,

just say ya,

but dont add a whole 2 cents about it.

Think of it this way.

You like to be around people who are happy

and have an air about them that screams "i love life and things may get in my way but they dont bother me" and someone who doesnt have an opinion about EVERYONE.

Sorry for the long answer lol.

Anywho,

Dont dwell on these girls...

its better to be acquaintences with EVERYONE

than it is to have one or two GOOD friends.

Hope I helped ;)

If the girl told lies, then get some witnesses to back you up, confront her in front of everyone else PROVE she is a liar and they will think twice before believing her again.She will think twice about telling another lie as well.

Also if those people knew you at all they would know those were lies hon.