Yahoo Answers is shutting down on May 4th, 2021 (Eastern Time) and the Yahoo Answers website is now in read-only mode. There will be no changes to other Yahoo properties or services, or your Yahoo account. You can find more information about the Yahoo Answers shutdown and how to download your data on this help page.

Ex girlfriend confused me after breakup?

Ex girlfriend confused me after breakup?

My ex broke up with me a while back online. I tried to work things out with her. She wasnt interested, and I said ok, youll never hear from me again. later that night she rang my house four times and finally left a voice mail telling me to forgive her, that she hurts too, and to try and forget about us, blah blah blah. I just told her she wouldnt hear from me again. Why try and contact me after Im in agreement with her? I did email her again and said im not sure why you called me but if you want to hear me say im done and do this the right way i will call you. she never replied. anyway, im moving on, but i am curious to her actions.

Thanks Guys.

10 Answers

Relevance
  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    She sounds like a prick tease. Move on.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    she was just going through some tough emotions, because breaking up isnt always easy even if we are the ones doing the breaking up. she felt bad about breaking up with you, or at least doing it online and didnt want to end things on bad terms. she probably knew she didnt need to call but did it anyway. break ups are hard to go through with sometimes when we loved the people we are ending things with, and some people have a hard time making a clean cut. maybe she missed you and wanted to talk. maybe she was looking for emotional support. maybe things would have been different if you had tried to talk it out with her, but that after reading your email about how you were serious she finally gave up. it could have been a few things, and you cant know for sure without asking her directly. it doesnt really matter though, does it? unless you are trying to figure out if there was some part of her that still wanted to make things work, and if thats the case.. if you want her back, fight for her! thats all a woman ever wants.. a man that fights to keep her. it probably hurt her when you gave up, when you agreed to never talk to her again. it probably confirmed her feelings. another thing is she probably didnt expect you to NEVER want to even SPEAK with her again, that would be hard.. after being so close with someone and then not having any relationship at all? I dont care what happened, that would be hard for any girl to deal with in my honest opinion. you were a big part of her life (Im assuming) and then to just have that peice go missing, that would be hard so maybe thats why she felt the need to call. desperation for some little peice of that life back because having the hole was too painful or weird. those are my thoughts.

  • 1 decade ago

    don't read into what her actions were too much forget about her a**

  • 1 decade ago

    women are weird they have guy friends that say everything they wanta hear and make it sound better we break up and see it's all a lie,not what we think then we run back a girl thing????

  • 1 decade ago

    It happens...she was lonely. Just move on.

  • 1 decade ago

    She probably just wanted to talk to you because she didnt realize what she did till you were gone. You did the right thing.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    second thoughts and all that

    when i broke up with my boyfriend, i was pretty sure it was what i wanted

    but a week later i started missing him

    i didnt say anything though lol

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Your not completely moving on if your still worried about her and her action!!!! Stop taking her calls and e-mail, that is moving on!!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    She probably just missed you...we aren't always the most logical beings. I think you did the right thing tho...stick to your guns

  • 5 years ago

    pensi

Still have questions? Get your answers by asking now.