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Please help me!! I'd like someone to please help me!!?
Okay, here's my predicament. I love my girlfriend very much. So much, that I'm going to ask her to marry me this year. She doesn't know when of course. She just knows that I am. Sometimes when I am talking to her, we usually text because she is horribly busy during the day so we just text, on occasion I've said something that ends up upsetting her. She'll start texting like she is upset with me. I'll ask her what's wrong and she'll say, "Nothing, or nothing's wrong." I'll say okay and continue to talk how I've been talking to her. I KNOW that she's upset because she'll start just saying "Yupp, or yes, or just simply okay." I don't say anything to her about it because then she really will be upset because I've said something about it. That kind of hurts my feelings when she does that. It just seems like she doesn't really care to talk to me. She just keeps saying single words. Nothing much at all.
What should I do? Should I leave it be when she does that, and wait it out until she's okay? I'm confused. She won't tell me what's wrong so that's out of the question. I don't know if something is really wrong, or if she is just acting that way for no reason.Please help....
3 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
If this mostly happens during texting.. then why not take a look back and see what you sent that seems to upset her.
Or since it is easy for you to tell when she is upset, why not let her know that you didn't mean to upset her, and that it really bothers you when she seems upset.
It's all about communication... so taking the time to notice, and stop saying the things that bother her, or showing that you care enough that you don't want to upset her, will mean a lot.
- 1 decade ago
maybe instead of to continue talking about stuff and asking her more stuff you should tell her your sorry and ask her how did you upset her, and if she says nothing then just tell her you know shes upset and you want to talk things out so you wont do it again kind of thing so you can fix your mistakes...
- 1 decade ago
tell her from your text back it seems obvious your mad at me are you?? and why?? if she doesnt tell you tell her well anyways i am sorry i didnt mean to upset you in anyway