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Getting annoyed at school? Help?

Ok so everyone knows I'm Gay, I don't speak like it or dress like it. I have few friends. I'm always constantly afraid everyday that someones gonna say something to me and some days they do and i go home to feel better. I want to say something to them but i can't and i know im just supposed to ignore them but i really want them to disappear. Due to my fear of them (bully's, pricks,) i don't do any of my work in school and i usually sleep or try to turn invisible. I cant shake it off, ive went to the consul-er about it and i went to the prince-able and i also have talked to my mom about it and friends. What should i do? I have to wait 3 years to get out of school due to Michigan's new law that you have to wait till your 18 to drop out, and i cant just go to school everyday, i get severely depressed. I can't go to another school or get home schooled, What should i do?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    the reason why ur beiung picked on is because u make urself look weak.. u need a personality. and a background, ur gay, dont wear thin skin tight shirts that make u look like a fag. wear normal cloths. avoid shops like aeropostal, american eagle, and pretty boy stores like that, stores like pac sun, zumies, or other shops of the like are ok.... walk with her head held high, if someone says something to u. say something back, dont let them push u around. odds are the person u least expect is most likely gay... there is so many gay people on this world. im not lying. x mas break is almost over, go to school with a brand new attitude. change ur style... let ppl kno ur a fun guy.. and who knows... maybe one day ull be sucking the cock of the captain of the football team.

    Source(s): i see ppl get pushed round a lot cuz they are gay... i tell em to change their personalities. and their attitude and make themself fun. and it works they start making friends.
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I really feel for you, being a teen is hard at best and being gay means copping discrimination about a topic that is highly sensitive for teenagers at the best of times, it is unfair that people make you feel this way.

    I promise you it will get better and you have to hang in there. try to surround yourself with supportive and like minded people - it doesn't matter whether they are gay or straight, as long as they are supportive friends. Get some counselling too, if possible, is there a gay support organisation or gay social group close to where you live? Most youth centres provide some options for support, you could try there.

    The people who put you down for your sexuality are the ones with the problem, not you, they need to learn to be more mature and accepting of others if they even hope to get on in society as adults, they are not worth it and don't worry, they will come unstuck all by themselves eventually, you wont have to do a thing!

  • You'll always find people messing up with you, because they're depressed and that's how they ease their depression, by torturing others.

    So the problem will not be fixed when you finish school.

    It will finish when...

    either:

    1.- You ignore it. By ignoring them, REALLY ignoring them, they'll grow bored of you and gradually stop harassing you; you must SHOW them that their words/actions can't hurt you (even if they do hurt you, you gotta grab a mask and act like an indifferent person)

    2.- By fixing it, that is... IF you know the solution. Maybe you can start harassing them back, as a defense mechanism.

    Whatever suits you best ^^

    Don't let them control your emotions, you must control them, otherwise you'll depend on others for the rest of your life.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    just ignore it. you cant help who you are. and the people who don't like it are just jerks. you shouldn't have to drop out of school because of that. be proud of who you are, and try to find a group you can be a part of. you don't have to change schools, or your live. cling onto the friends who matter, forget those who don't. and remember, no matter what there's always someone out there who cares for you and understands. (i may not be gay but there were times i wanted to quit school because of the things said to me, i may not know you. but ill always listen)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Omg!! I'm so sorry! I used to be the same way. I would pretend to be sick to go home because people pissed me off. But you just gotta be strong man! and OMG I'm from Michigan too!! lol Ann Arbor !!! :)

    But yea like I said just..be strong and don't let ppl get to u! :)

  • 1 decade ago

    Suck it up, I do everyday. I live in the hick, Christian capitol of Southern Arkansas. Trust me, you got it easy.

    Source(s): I'm 16 Sophomore Gay Male
  • 1 decade ago

    Sorry. :( but you can just ignore and not give them that power over you. :) IM FROM MICHIGAN TOO! BELLEVILLE! LOL!

  • 1 decade ago

    Grow some balls.

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