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Is it weird to ask a stranger to live with you for a bit?

I have been feeling alone after a terrible breakup, I'm thinking of asking a woman between 24 and 45 to just come hang out with me for a while. If she can cook some and be a decent human being I think we could have a good time. it's odd I know, but I live in a small town and have dated my way through it. Some thoughts on what could go wrong.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    YES IT IS WEIRD BECAUSE YOU DON'T KNOW THE PERSON. THEY CAN BE A CRIMINAL,

    A RAPIST OR SOMETHING BAD.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    That's a novel idea. It just might work. Thinking of the down side:

    !.) You may be tempted to use the live-in as a therapist and talk about your break up. She has no qualifications to really help you other than give a second opinion. Moreover, you may talk obsessively about your break up and that will cause you more harm than good.

    2.) You said that it is a small town. People will talk. For sure.

    3.) You may become sexually intimate with the live-in as a quick fix. That's not going to do you or her any good.

    Sounds to me that you need a friend to talk to. Everyone eventually gets tired (sooner rather than later) of listening to a sad sack friend constantly moaning and crying about a lost love. Buck up and move on. Easier said than done. I know. Try finding new interests or get re-involved in old interests ... hobbies, sports, pastimes, etc. Make new friends.

    Don't stew or obsess in your broken heart.

  • 1 decade ago

    I never heard of such a thing but this is quite interesting. I think its a good idea. As a human being, we all need that human interaction and such.

  • 1 decade ago

    its better u get kno the person first n their background n be friend them

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