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rainbowgirl asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 1 decade ago

my sis and me........problems..?

i have a twin sister, she is 5min younger to me. we were born premature and she had a problem.when she grew up, we knew that she was a slow learner and she had dyslexia.my mom and dad are doctors and dont have much time for her. my mom's really worried about my sis. she does bad in studies and she cant help it. i am a total opposite of my sis (we dont look alike). my sister pisses me off really badly and i cant help telling her the bads in her. and she irritates me a lot so i cant help getting angry on my sis and pointing the bads in her like.i say "ur bad in studies. i am better than you" and "u are ugly". i love my sis but it just slips out. and my mom feels bad when we both fight.

i feel bad about this and i am worried. please give me some tips to control my anger. plz plz

thanks

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  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
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    Im glad you care about her enough tto want to change this :) I know hwo hard it is when you have a twin sister thats just totally irritating you.

    I have a twin sis whos 2min. younger than me and we;re fraternal

    we fight almost all the time, and I do better in studies as well, but we fight about the tiniest things and I feel so bad after. I always apologize to her after which makes it hard, but she never apologizes to me so that makes it even harder. But it helps, and what also helps is if you need to let out your anger for a moment just leave the room, punch a pillow or "verbally get it out" with your head under a pillow and then she wont hear you and you'll realize it was silly :)

    I hope this helps you out though I know what you mean.

  • Jack Bauer
    1 decade ago

    You cant be that good considering you cant teach her and you cant learn the skill of patience..

    If she can understand what you tell her... then, she can be as smart as your doctor parents.. It takes time and patience. With time she will start moving those slow neurons in her head and ideas will start clicking...

    Although i dont think she will be able to get M.D or PhD...(maybe she can if you do to help her) but, she can at least get bachelors... People learn different ways find a way that she is intrested in..that way you can actually learn how to bond with your sister instead of casting her aside.

  • Samson j
    1 decade ago

    I am twin and same as you, only thing is, my Sister was smarter than me, Now everyone looks up to me even her, cos i am the smart one, Maybe you gusy need to stay away from each other for a while, maybe one year without talking to each other, it might help, it helped strengthen me and my Sister's relationship.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I was in the same situation. My brother has ADD and I always make fun of him. Like you, it just slipped out.

    Everytime he bugs me, and I want to yell at him I think to myself; ''It's not his fault he is like this. He can't help it.'' Now me and my brother hardly ever get into fights :)

  • Random Person
    1 decade ago

    Aww your poor sister my and my sister fight i like either go scream in my pillow or just walk away or just count to ten and just smile i hope everything goes well

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