Confused!! ladies help?

Girls love guys that are affectionate. Depends on how you define affection. we love to be hugged and told we are special to our guy. Now if your talking sex, well we are a bit more selective. Depends if we are in love and feel that closeness that is needed.. Always show you care, even if we don't ask for it. Girls have a tendency to say not to care but its because we are nervous about the closeness, we usually still want the words. Hope this helps and good luck :D

If you're too full on then it can be a bit of a turn off. Let her do the affectionate stuff and don't act like you don't care but just... Make sure it's what she wants aswell.

Body language is key!

Everyones different. I love when my bf is affectionate, but there are times when affectionate becomes needy and I call him out on it. Not to say that its bad its just one of those "in the mood" things and I still love him for it. So I say its prob a lil bit of both. All I can say is we women have all kinds of wants and desires. Its just finding the right person to accept you as you are. When you find that person you'll know.

NO!!!! Im with a guy right now who acts like that and it hurts...like hell, but he is only affectionate maybe once a month. Girls like guys who are manly, and isnt a wimp. If a guy is all lovey dovey 24 seven, it sends a needy, wimpy vibe, and thats not good, but if he is hardly ever lovey dovey, girls get a jerk and asshole vibe, so its very hard. Just ask her exactly what she likes, wants and doesnt like. Ask her if she prefers, romantic, or kinky, love or lust, playful or serious...it makes it much easier. If you know what to do for her, you wont have a problem :)

I can't stand guys who act really shady. I need a guy who is affectionate. Doesn't have to be 24/7. Because I have a life!

umm, i like boys who are caring and sensitive n affectionate, in fact a lot girls are like that but not every girl

at first she may like you because you are caring and all that, but when the relationship gets stronger i think its good to move on, DO NOt stay at the same level because it gets boring and its like you don't want to spend time together anymore.

asks her what she exactly wants, because a girl can change her mind really quickly, and i also think she ALSO is confused, not just you.

her feelings are mixed.

soo, good luck :)

Yes act like you care!! not all of the time to the point that it feel's as tho you are smothering us...but show some affection. If you don't act like you care at all then thats in the insecurity in chics come out

yes most girls love it when your more affectionate, they think it's cute/ just dont be too much because otherwise they might think your gay lmao!

i like my man to have more balls than me. but he cant be too cocky to never cry and stuff of the sort.

i like 85% tough the rest affectionate/romantic(:

see it depends upon u r girl friend's mind whether she wants u be affectonate or not