My husband hangs up on me everyday more than once per day...?

Unfortunately, your husband sounds like a disrespectful jerk. If he keeps hanging up on you, I would stop calling him and give him the silent treatment for a while, wait for him to call you, then hang up on him just to give him a taste of his own medicine. His behavior is very immature and if he keeps it up the only thing to do is to move on because you don't deserve that kind of treatment.

Don't leave him !!! However, you need to do somthing *anything* to get it through his head that you love him,but you also love yourself and will not put up with his ****....ALSO, take an honest examination of your own BS...You just had a baby so you could be going through some changes that you are not even fully aware of that could be making everything "seem" more intense and dramatic...

This is a critical time period where alot of partnerships sink or swim,so be aware that this is a major testing period in your marriage. Knowing that alone could strenthen your resolve to be "better" than the situation and start to fight for your marriege in a more creative and spiritually inspirational way...

Was he like this before you got married? You can't honestly say that you didn't know he was like this after having been together for 8 years. And what's the reason your calling him so much? But regardless of that, no husband should ever talk to his wife that way and vice versa. It's completely inappropriate and disrespectful. There are obvious issues that need to be dealt with outside of Yahoo Answers.

It sounds as though things have changed since baby was born. You both need to sit down with a counsellor and get out all of your resentments towards each other, and create a life plan together so that resentments won't grow, and get dealt with in an adult manner. This man is not displaying very much maturity, and I wish you the best of luck. I know its hard, but be kind to yourself and your little one.

You need to stop calling him. You need to stop answering his calls. If he wants to see his child, go into another room when he picks the baby up. You need to STOP this behavior. You have asked him and he refuses. Do NOT allow him to treat you this way. He doesn't even like you, do you know that? He is blaming you for something and he hates you right now. No matter what you do, he's going to be pissed off. He's not mature enough to be in this relationship and you need to proceed through life without him. Unless he gets help, that he doesn't think he needs, he's going to continue to treat you this way. You cannot let your child grow up in this kind of environment like it is ok. GET OUT NOW is the only solid advice I can give you. Good luck.

It is really quite simple - don't call him and don't answer when he calls. You will be amazed at how the stress will lower.

I would not accept that treatment from my husband and he would not want to talk to me 4 times in one day on the phone. The respect is lacking both ways.

I will tell you - from what you wrote and the way you wrote it - WAY too much drama and you seem very young.

Leave your husband alone when he is at work. Get busy focusing on your child and making yourself a happier person. Some one that he wants to be around, that he wants to call during the day.

The more you cry, complain and call, the more he will draw away until you lose him.

If you love him hang it there. My wife just left me and three kids after tens of marriage and 15 years of being together.All because she started going to school and seeing someone there. Should I hold on. There is a saying we both might think about. If you love someone enough just let go. Then maybe they'll see what they let go.

well there are many ways a person can look at this. first off its wrong of you to get the IUD with out your husband agreeing. that's a big decision and once your married its one you shouldn't make on your own. granted, yes, it is your body however you are married and now joined as one with your husband. also its wrong of him to say "**** u". what are u saying to him that he is angry with you? that's a big missing detail. however still wrong. i thought people get married because they are in absolute admiration and in love with one another. you two need understanding, counseling maybe.. but talk, talk it out with him and base your decisions off of that.

don't let people on a website tell u to divorce your husband

x:female opinion.

Start hanging up on him and saying the same to him when u dont agree with him....dont worry about the IUD part cuz u the one putting up with the baby stuff...if he aint helpin then kick his sorry *** out u only have one kid why u need to put up with another one (meaning him)