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Should I dress slim or sexy?
I'm meeting my old friend this weekend in a mall. A guy whom I haven't seen for 5 years. The thing is, he used to tease me once or twice that I was fat.
Now I lost weight and feeling much better about myself. Even so, I still like to dress in black. It's my safe color. Also, I prefer clothes that can minimize my bust and shape my waist.
Anyways, I was wondering whether to wear something slimming or something sexy this weekend. I want him to go "woah" (not interested in him btw).
I'm pairing off with a pair of nice black pants but not quite sure what to wear for top. Something black but not sure whether to go either sexy or slim.
Slim meaning something that compliments my body shape and covers up to half my arm length. Sexy meaning something sleeveless and a little low cut (nothing to be seen intentionally though)
Any opinions? I don't mind seeing reference photos as well, I could maybe use that and try to find something similar in my closet.
Plz, no mean comments
we're just friends .. nothing can go beyond that .. slim or sexy either one is feel good ..
oh. i'm not slender thin yet .. just much fitter and averagely thinner than 5 years ago ..
10 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
personally if you want to show him how much your confidence has grown and make him feel bad maybe you should stay away from the safety of black .. at the end of the day its about how you feel you should dress it also depends on your skin tone as well but red is also a safe colour and can have the effect of slimming like black aswell whilst being sexy aswell .... hope this helps and good luck
- 1 decade ago
if you're not interested in him, go slim. That's what you're trying to draw attention to, and that's what will get THAT noticed (rather than trying to make him feel physically ATTRACTED to you... which is the goal of dressing sexy.)
I think dressing sexy would give the wrong impression. Dressing classy and slim will get you the attention you want without the unintentionally provoked "I want you" side effects. lol
Source(s): Lost 80 lbs 4 years ago. - 1 decade ago
You should try a slim top. But I wouldn't go with a black shirt if you're wearing black pants. Try red or purple.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Show off your weight loss! I would maybe lean to the conservative side, since you're not interested- you don't want him to get the wrong impression. But something form-flattering is definitely called for. Just avoid a low neckline or cleavage.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
Go slim since this is only a casual meeting. If you go sexy, then the guy may interpret the situation with you differently.
- kessiahLv 45 years ago
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- 1 decade ago
Ok. Well first of all, don't do black with black. It screams "insecurity." Maybe do a nice blue top like this one: http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog_name=...
And some black heals and silver jewelry.
- Breezer <3Lv 41 decade ago
go sexy like a tube top but no black! :) maybe purple with black accents :)) hope i helped
- 1 decade ago
dress sexy!!!!!!!!! he used to tease you so it your turn to tease him. show off your curves. Show he cant get you
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Whatever you think makes you look your best.