do girls love guys more or do the guys love the girls more in the relationship?

That seems like a pretty childish and silly waste of time.

Guys and girls are different. What girls are looking for in a relationship is not what guys want. Love to a girl is not the same as what love to a guy is.

Just knowing that will put you way ahead of the game.

I'm not sure, but I personally think that there's always one person who loves more in a relationship. Some people will agree and others might disagree with this. It might be the case if the relationship has just begun, however, i believe that after a while it might become more 'balanced'.

Although it's a common thing between couples to bicker over who loves who more; I love you, i love YOU more, i love you to infinity, i love you to infinity plus one and etc..

I don't think that it has anything to do with gender though. Girls just tend to be more demonstrative when it comes to love...i think? (not all).

As long as they BOTH love each other, it doesn't matter. Problems may arise if one person is all give and the other is all take...you know? So it should be equal.

Depends on the individual person...not the gender. Gender really has nothing to do with it. Love encompasses so many things. This is my conception of Love. Love is a day by day denial of what you want for another. You give up a part of your own soul. You willingly sacrifice your own well being for another, To your own hurt. Perhaps even for someone who won't even care. Seems utterly foolish to the human mind but This is Love nothing else is or can be called Love. This sort of Love really eliminates the petty quarrels that most couples face. It's amazing, most people don't truly Love each other from the heart. Today, love has been reduced to mean an emotional fondness towards some one else. The term: "fall in love" is commonly used. The sad fact is that this usually doesn't last; the very emotion that caused the "Love" is overran by another emotion of the same magnitude. People often times say that they "love" someone but they expect the person to perform in a specific manner , else they will not "love" that person. " If you do this and that , then I will love you. " Such selfishness.

Girls don't love the other part of the relationship. Girls love the relationship itself. She needs to see everything perfect. She needs everything in the relation stable. She needs to feel loved as a reaction of her concern about health of the relationship.

As you can see girls main concern is about the relationship itself not the guy, that is why they always need to change their guy because they want to have their relative perfect image of life.

For guys, they need a fancy girl, a beautiful girl. They need a girl that satisfies their ambitions. They need a girl that fulfills their needs. They need a non slut that would bring up well brought children.

As you can see guys can abstract out the same Identity of the girl and still have a what they want in a relationship.

In my opinion guys love girls more. Girls want the guys to tell them how much they love them every day, but they can't even bring themselves to tell the guys how they really feel (see what I said to a previous question at the link below). For girls it isn't really about love; it's about security. They just want someone to take care of them. I know that's not what you want to hear, but that's the way I see it based on all of my experiences with relationships.

Anyway, if you're fighting over that you don't belong together. I think you should do yourselves a favor and go your separate ways.

It all depends on the individual. Both are capable of love, caring and devotion. But some more then others. Some cases the girl love the guy but the guy doesnt, on the other hand other cases the guy loves the girl more and the girl doesn't. I'm afraid you cant stereotype this one!

Both ways.

Boys can love girls more and vice versa Girls can love boys more. It all depends on the people positions in the relationship and how they are in general in relationships. If your finding out if you love someone more. This is not the way to go about it but to say how each of you are together.

Hope i help

I don't think you know anything about real love. The name thing is actually an old tradition of our patriarchal society and has nothing to do with who loves who more. I actually kept my name and added his as a hyphen because he is in the Army and it is easier to deal with everything if we have the same last name. As for who loves who more, I think we both love each other and we each have different ways of showing that. Read a book called the 5 languages of love. It shows that different people have different styles of showing love and if you are not "speaking" the same love "language", then it may cause problems int he relationship because one or both partners are not getting the validation they need. I can tell by your blanket statements that you have not been in love before. You probably have had very strong feelings and I'm not discounting that but when you experience true love you will recognize that you did not know anything about love before then.

If this is indeed a point of contention between the two of you, your relationship is doomed at the outset. It is not a competition for brownie points of affection between the two of you. In arguing over something as trivial as who loves who the most, you are nitpicking your way to a harvest you will eventually regret reaping. What other boys and girls do with their lover's spats is totally irrelevant to yours. Love is not love if it obfuscation brings. Be confident in your relationship if you genuinely do wish to preserve it.

Girls are built to be more trusting and loving, they think they have fallen in love the minute they see a guy. The guy, on the other hand, thinks of a woman as something disposable untill he spends tons of time with you. It's just how their minds work.