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Why does Everybody act like wanting someone for their looks is a bad thing?

It's called having standards. Seriously, I had work on myself to get to where I am right now with my dating life, I had to work very hard. And not just in the gym. To get really good with women you have to actually be interesting, have an interesting lifestyle, and you have to really understand why women do certain things. And Trust me women, understanding you is harder then getting ripped like Arnold Schwarzenegger.

Update:

If I should have to work on myself, so should she.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    We "want" someone for many reasons, looks being one of them. But looks, generally speaking, is/are something we're born with. How we are inside is the product of how we have chosen to live. If I choose because of looks only, then I can be disappointed in many ways. Looks can perhaps get that first date but to develop a relationship, it usually takes more than looks. Usually.

  • 1 decade ago

    thanks for your answer..

    urm i actually agree with you though, that if you work hard to look hot you deserve a girl like that too

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