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Kinda confusing but pleeeease help :'-(?
Alright so i've been dating my gf for almost 9 months. We're both the really jealous type. There's this dude that really likes her and he used to come up and hug her and flirt with her like right in front of me, and that pissed me off. So like maybe 3 months ago my bff told him to back off, and he did. But a month ago this dude texted my gf asking her out and she told him no b/c she's dating me and he got mad and she said that they werent friends anymore. Last nite 1 of my rly good friends who has history w/ my gf and this dude texted me and told me that this dude rubs my gf's back and wraps his arms around her in class & that she doesnt try 2 stop him, she just laughs. Im really softspoken and shy and i wanna ask my gf about it but idk how to. Ths rly pisses me off. They totally ignore each other when im around but in class theyre all touchy feely. What should i do? Thanks :)
3 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I can see why you are upset and if someone was touching my girlfriend that would not fly with me. I can't really tell you much about your soft spoken issue... if you want to stop it then you have to just suck it up and tell your girlfriend (in a nice way) that people have told her that she lets that guy touch her and massage her in class and that it really upsets you, and that if she doesn't tell him to back the fcuk off then you don't know if you can stay with her. If she is a good girlfriend she will understand how you feel and tell him to stop touching her. Make sure you ask your friend in their class to keep an eye on them to see if she actually tells him to stop.
- 1 decade ago
You should ask your gf if it's true, and why she lets him do it. Tell her it upsets you, and if she really cares she'll do something about it. Later, ask your friends if it's still going on, and if it is sit her down and let her know you're serious. Let her know that you feel like she's disrespecting you, and ask her how she honestly feels about the guy. Then ask her how she would feel if the situation was turned around. You just have to communicate with her. I understand that your shy, but be firm. Sometimes it's just necessary.
- 1 decade ago
iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii.. get angry & then go talk 2 him
& then go & report everyth 2 her & ask her gently if any of this was true
