I feel like my boyfriends getting bored of me ?

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Me and my boyfriend talk on the phone alot, not enough to get bored of eachother but a decent amount of time each day because we dont see eachother as often as wed like, but whenever i phone him hes on his PS3 playing his games, he dont talk while doing this n just leaves me on speaker, all i would hear is him playing his game, his family in the background and him swearing because the game annoys him when he dont win it or whatever..alot of the timehed tell me 'one minute' id say ok thinking hes only gonna be about a minute to quickly do somthing, but hes left me as long as about half an hour!! 30 mins of me just sitting on the phone while hes in a room with his family and his phone would be in his pocket, this makes me feel kinda intimidated as if he would rather me not be there.. when i try ring him to have a conversation, hes always like i gotta go eat, i gotta go have shower, i gotta go do this that and the other, bareing in mind he does say this more than once an evening! who eats about 3 meals from like..5 til 10?  and hes not about 20 mins..hes like 45! a few times hes asked me if id change certain things, like he aked me if id ever thought of having my hair short, ive told him alot of times before i like it long and am trying to grow it, i asked him if he would like me to have it short (even though in a million years id never) and he said noo noo..i also find sometimes were just silent on the phone, i try really hard to think of conversation, but i get short answers and stuff :/

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I bet he is.  This question is also boring and the phone calls sound like 13 year olds conversations!

sierrastarrxxx · Answer

You should try to limit your phone call conversations. Maybe he's just not a phone person, I'm like that. I hate being on the phone, some people are just like that. So try to maybe call him twice a week. Don't call him, just for the sake of calling him. Call him when you have something interesting to say so it doesn't get too boring. Maybe instead of calling him, set up a date with him. A couple doesn't necessarily have to talk to each other for hours on the phone, that's ridiculous. I'm been happily married for 2 years and my husband and I don't even call each other everyday, when I'm at home and he's at work, and when we do it only lasts for 5 minutes. But yet I don't consider it as him being bored of me. Stop over analyzing it and instead of turning this into a negative just think about certain activities you could start doing with your boyfriend instead! :)

SoCaliJ · Answer

You say you talk on the phone every day. Maybe thats the problem.

My boyfriend (of 2 years, 10 months) and I use to talk on the phone every day in the beginning. Then one day (about a year or so into dating), I noticed he would give one word answers or not talk as much. So I asked him, "Do you not want to talk on the phone? You don't have much to say?" His response was: "I think we know so much about each other that there isn't much to talk about anymore." I didn't get mad. I liked how honest he was. So now we text. Short little texts every day to show each other we are thinking of each other. I don't need to talk to him every day. Because you can run out of things to say.

So... I would suggest maybe talking to him about your concerns. Ask him whats up with the phone calls. And hopefully you will get an honest answer.

Best wishes.

Rena · Answer

Seems like your bf forgot you were on the phone when he left u for 30 min waiting!
OMG, I know wut ur going through, I feel the same about my bf sometimes. We only see eachother once a week and he doesn't even like to talk on the phone when im on my break from work. We are just silent and it's pointless. Sometimes I don't even call him on my break anymore, I just wait till I get off work and we just talk for like 15 min. and then it gets silent again or he just says "im about to eat" or "im about to watch my show". Its like, well Im the one with the schedule and he doesn't even have a job right now. 
I started not calling my bf as much and he sounds happier when I call him now. I never called him too much but I do know that guys don't like to "chat" for a long time. 
I guess you should just call him less and see if you see any difference when he talks to you.
When you see each other, do you guys do anything like movies?
Just do your own thing for now don't let him hold you back or make you feel down. I know it sucks but just act distant with him for now and see if you see any changes from him.

Fighter1987 · Answer

what are you doing to bore him. If all you do is talk on the phone then of coarse he will be bored. Get together and do something. Make dates and get sexual

Lindsey · Answer

dump that boy like a dump truck would.

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