A DATE O.O ?

I think that in this equation you should really focus only on what you wear, and like others have said, do not spend too much time worrying about it. Chances are, it took a fair amount of guts for the guy to ask you out even if you have been friends for a long time. In fact, being friends, it was probably HARDER to do that than some random girl. I think you should put most of the planning burden on him for the first date. That will let him "man up" and feel empowered. This is not about dominance or submission, but since he put his pride and feelings on the line by asking you out, reward his courage by letting him call the shots on this date, even if he does choose something "sucky" like the movies. He will definitely be more relaxed and you will enjoy yourself.

After you have a successful date (which I am sure you will), feel free to take the lead on planning the next (he will love this). Have something in mind at the end of the first. If you say something like, "Hey, tonight was great. I was thinking, do want to __________ this weekend?" he will appreciate it. This will show him that you had a good time and that you are interested in keeping the relationship going.

By the way, you could wear almost anything on the first date and get away with it just fine. He will be so hopped up on hormones and nervousness that you will truly look ravishing through "testosterone eyes." Obviously don't go for the stirrup sweat pants and oversized sweater, complete with headband, but wear something comfortable for you. He will dig it.

Well, it's cold. Haha, at least it is where I am! So I'd say just wear jeans and a cute top (could be low cut if you prefer, just not too low cut so you don't give off the wrong signal-unless of course you WANT to send that signal, then lower the better haha) then whatever shoes you normally wear. Or if you wanted to be more dressy, but not too dressy, wear a casual skirt, cute top and maybe some boots or something with it. You should definitely go eat, haha, it makes for good conversation time. Maybe somewhere like Chili's or T.G.I.Friday's or wherever. He's paying, i assume, so let him choose that. Then maybe y'all could go bowling or something. That's always fun haha. And I agree with whoever said to just be yourself. It's true, he asked you out for you, so just be that and he'll love it :) and if he doesn't, well screw him and find somebody that does, but it sounds like he wants you ;) haha

Well looks like your dreams are coming true. Suggest going out with friends to ease the pressure. It will all turn out perfect with friends around, no matter where you go. I suggest you go to the mall or something. Maybe wear a flirty dress or sweet jeans and a flattering shirt...anything that is cute! And don't forget to be yourself!

haha just calm down and you'll be fine.

wear something that you're comfortable in. something that makes you feel like you look good, but nothing sleazy. if you're comfortable in your clothes then you'll be less likely to be fidgety and awkward.

dinner is always good, it gives you a chance to look at each other and talk. a picnic is always fun because then you can still sit and be together after you've finished eating. But, depending on where you live, that might not be an option at this time of year. it sounds like you're pretty young,s o you could eat somewhere at the mall and wander around afterwords.

just be yourself!

good luck!

Yay for you!! Seriously, be yourself! Dress comfortably and attractively. Ice skating is a fun date (potential for hand holding.) Dinner is an opportunity to talk. Ummmmm, you can make a scavanger hunt at your house or something with a dinner at the end. Hmmmmmm... Don't wear tooo much makeup or he will think you are insecure about your looks. HAVE FUN!!!!

You guys should totally do something like iceskating! that way you can talk and had an excuse(not being good at it) to hold hands. after you'll be cold so you can get hot chocolate and cuddle :)

wear skinny jeans a cute sweater and scarf and a beanie :)

HAVE FUN!

Don't overthink it...you will work yourself up and when you get stressed, you seem less relaxed on a date. He'll notice and that won't be good lol. Agree with all of the above, be yourself, and don't overthink what you are wearing and where to go.

Go bowling & wear tight jeans with a cute top! good luck!

Wear what ever makes you look the best and let him worry about where you go. And just be yourself and be sure to flirt.

Okay he asked you out because he liked, and if he has a problem with the date or how you look then then my question is why did he even ask you out?