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my friend likes me, i'm pretty sure, but i'm confused?
i wasn't initially attracted to him, but he's being really obvious he likes me and i guess i'm ok with that, but i can't tell if i like him now or not. i miss him when he's not around and always wonder where he is or what he's doing, and we text or talk almost every day, but it's kind of like when i'm around him, i wonder how we could be anything but friends. but there have been moments that make me feel... proud of him? protective, etc. ... but i dont think i'd want him to have a girlfriend if it wasn't me.
i sound really unfair, probably, but sometimes i feel kind of like when we're near each other there's this tension (like electricity, whatever), and i feel good when he looks at me, and even though he's not the best looking guy around and we don't have a lot of the same interests, i'm just completely 100% comfortable around him and like being with him and feel good that he's near. so i guess the question is, is it possible to date someone and THEN have feelings for them?
7 Answers
- 1 decade ago
In short, feelings come with time. That's just from my experience, you can go from feeling like "eh, I kind've like this person, we'll see where it goes." to 5 years down the line you know everything about this person and want to marry them. At least, that's how my life turned out, and I'm glad I made the decision to do so. So, in closing: Follow your heart and get in a relationship with the boy, if anything happens try to save your friendship, but don't risk your happiness on the belief that "If I date this boy, our friendship will die if anything happens" Take chances, learn from mistakes.
- 1 decade ago
I was in basically the same situation where my really good friend liked me but I didn't know how I felt about him until I went out with him. I think it is normal to date and then see if you have feelings for him, especially because you never saw him in the way he saw you. Its like hanging out almost. In my situation, we were complete opposites and still are. In the end, I did not develop the same feelings as he did but he understood that we shouldn't mess with our friendship if it did not work out. Sure it was awkward at first, but in the end, we still talk, and still have our friendship as it was before.
Hope it helped, good luck with your situation! (:
- cialellaLv 45 years ago
so if he's a chum in basic terms pass as much as him and ask him if he likes your chum extra suitable than in basic terms a chum or consistent with probability hes in basic terms appearing like a guy chum to the the two considered one of u ... my guy friends do it to me each and all the time. and that i've got a bf i instructed him he knows my boy friends and he knows that no longer something will ever come between us. yet ne way... of subject... sorry if u dont get the gull to ask him consistent with probability he will pick considered one of u. seek for suggestion from ur thoughts to the the two considered one of them and notice the way it is going then decide
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- 1 decade ago
If you are 40 and single you may consider dating a guy who cares about you SO MUCH with who you feel comfortable with. you know... a guy who loves you love paddles and your wrinkles and fat belly hahaha
but you are young! If you like good looking guys, find a good looking guy.
You know what's gonna happen?
1.You'll start dating him,
2. Realize that your feelings are not enough,
3. Break up with him (very painful breakup since you care about him)
4. lose your best male friend..
ta-tam!
- 1 decade ago
The person you love him really you feel that he is the partner of your soul. But I shall ask you what is the picture, the interests, the faith of the ideal person you like to have as a boy freind
- 1 decade ago
i went through something like this a few days ago and the best way to handle it is to ask him out. if u don't its your choice... not mine......