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why do I have such a ungrateful sister??

Do you have such a sister like I have? When she was unwell twice in her life, long sickness that made her unable to get her out of the house,I helped her and looked after her. I called her daily to comfort her, I visited her weekly, I brought her to all the places she wanted to help her get well, like the doctors, the churches for many prayers sessions, helping her buying all she needs--clothes, shoes, underwears, etc

I did it and laid down my life to help her .

Now I am unwell for many years and doctors cannot find what is wrong. I suffer alone. Suddenly I discovered that she is no where to be found. She never called me to talk or comforts me.

She looked angry when she visited my mum whom I lived with. She is so afraid that I will ask her to help me or to bring me to doctors,etc..

Why has my sister so ungrateful and so unhelpful? Why is she avoiding me? Because of my sickness? is it because she is afraid that I would be a burden to her.

Can someone tell me why she acts so aloof and so cold?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    awww sweetie i'm sorry. Your sister is being a coward. I'm sorry, but there are all kinds of people in this world. Some good, some bad. Some caring , and some selfish. Your sister is selfish. I'm sorry to hear this. Maybe you should talk to her. Tell her how you feel. Tell her you would like to have her support during this difficult time. If she still chooses to neglect you, you're better off without her. I'm sure a person like you have lots of friends who care and love you. If your sister ignores you, you can turn to a close friend for help and comfort.

  • 1 decade ago

    You must ask the one who create her why is she like that. :D It's either she purposely do it to escape burden or she is out of her mind...:)

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