Very interesting dream ... can anyone give any insight?

I had been traveling around with my dad to various places. I mean by car to different places near Dallas. (That is where my parent’s house is … I am in college.) I happened to be in boxers and was very nervous about people noticing. I didn’t really want to be with my dad and tagging along with him. Somehow (this is absurd) I felt as though if I was really discreet I would not be noticed with my boxers. Eventually we traveled to a community college. My dad is a high school counselor so he knows a lot of people there. I was afraid that someone would notice I was only in boxers while talking to him.

I still see the shorts (in real life) because my mom will wear them on occasion around the house. They are very unstylish and I refused to put them on in my dream (not to mention they are actually too small for me now). I suppose I was still carrying them as we walked onto the campus. I thought about them often as we were walking through the community college. My dad happened to run into one of his former students who I went to 6th grade with. We have not seen each other since then and have only had minor contact on facebook and from what I have seen she is fairly attractive. She is, honestly, of no significance to me, so I do not know why she would be in my dream. She gave something to my dad and I was nervous that she would see my boxers. She left quickly but then appeared out of no where (about 2 minutes later) to say hi to me.

. I forgot about my boxers … perhaps I then had the shorts on (I will explain later b/c I am not sure). We both were smiling except as I opened my arms up for a hug she put out her hand for a shake. I thought this was strange but I didn’t have much time to react because her hand went towards my neck. Finally after six seconds she released me from her rather strong grip. She put her hand out again and said “Let’s start over.” I consider her offering and said something that amounts to “F*** YOU, CRAZY B****.” She stormed off and I just stood there nursing my neck.

People were sitting down as I believe this was a social area. No one was near me, but people were looking at me. I was stunned; my father was no where to be found. She came back to within 20 feet of me and we exchange a few words to try to hurt the other persons’ feelings. I was going to apologize about only having boxers on, but I realize that the shorts were now on me; I did not remember putting them on. I did eventually apologized (I am not sure for what), but I believe I also made it clear that she should say away. A guy who was sitting down struck me as I was about to walk away with my dad. He said something like “you’ll get her back later.” I believe he may have been shirtless. I walked off with my dad and I said something insulting to her as I walked out the door. It was a good insult in a humorous way (at least to me), and I remember laughing to myself on the way out.

My dad didn’t make a comment on what had just happened, but I was just pissed off and ranting to him. I was asked what happened by one of my dad’s friends. I explained my story and she only had two comments. That the girl was very smart, but also a trouble-maker. Then she also commented on my use of the world "b****" and how it made me seem “bitter” (yes I know that is ridiculous). Another woman joined in to hear my story as my dad and I walked away towards our car. I assume we were heading home; the dream ended.

The girl is representative of my relationship with women in general. I cannot think of another reason that such a random person would be used for my dream. Perhaps, I am mistrustful of my relationship with women. I always end up trying to play it off like I never cared about the person and maybe even trying to hurt her feelings after things quickly go awry. I still do not quite get why she choked me so quickly. That doesn’t seem quite right for my interpretation.

Any ideas are appreciated. I also may have missed the details that were early in the dream. This is just the part that stuck out to me and that I remember best. I also had another dream before this one, I am not sure if they are connected at all.

Feel free to ask any questions. I promise I will answer them.