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My "friend" is flirting with my boyfriend?
Yeah... There is this group of friends who I hang out with a lot that consists of two girls and a guy, and I just started going out with the guy. Me and one of the other girls used to both flirt with him a lot, and now that we're going out, she still flirts with him. I've told her that she needs to stop, but she says she's just being friendly. My other friend who is a girl who hangs out with us is friendly but she doesn't flirt with him at all, and there's a big difference. What should I do?
I meant two girls and a guy, not including me. So that's 4 people.
1. me
2. my bf
3. the girl that flirts with my bf
4. my other awesome friend
Just clearing that up cuz I re-read my question and it was a but confusing (:
7 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Tell her again. This time make sure she gets it. You don't need "friends" like that in your life
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Hi! you know what. I hate when your best friend wants to be a switchout and be with your own boyfriend. I mean how could she.Ain't she suppose to have you'r back? Well if she keeps doing it, when it's a good time to be with her then talk to her about her being with your boyfriend and nicely to tell her to stop! but say it nicely so she won't get mad and does it even more.And i think you also should talk to your boyfriend to. But if she won't stop then don't be her friend. Because she can't be doing that to people boyfriends.She know that they are already taken. And so if your boyfriend also falls for it then break up with him to. Because obviously they want to be toghether. So let them be. AND don't feel bad saying it because you KNOW your doing the right thing.Good luck! Bye honey!
Source(s): Expert - SaturnLv 41 decade ago
Tell her again that she needs to respect you and that youre going out with him now and you dont feel right when she flirts with him. Im sure nothing will happen between them but reassure her that you feel hurt and disrespected when she flirts with your boyfriend. If she is a true friend she would understand and stop.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I would just again state to her that she is flirting with him and that it hurts your feelings bc she is supposed to be your friend. Explain to her about how your other friend is friendly without being TOOOOOOOO friendly. If she keeps it up then just distance yourself from her. Maybe even ask your boyfriend to say something to her. Is she usually flirty with everyone or just him? If its just him....then yeah....not isn't a true friend.
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- 1 decade ago
You need to back off! you want him to change his friendship with her and vise verse? that's not fair. have more confidence in yourself and him that he wouldn't cheat on you. if you don't hav that trust you ned to rethink things. this has nothing to do with her. it has to do with your insecurities.
