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Are you lonely? serious answers only please!?

I am surrounded by people all day long, work two jobs and yet I am so lonely I go home every night to be by myself. I go out with friends and yet I know when they go home with their bf's and husband's that I am going home to be myself. I smile and act happy but so tired of people saying why arent you married when if I could I would jump at the chance to be with someone.... Does any one else feel like this? what did you do to heal the pain so that when people see you smiliing your honest on the inside too?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    During times of loneliness I think its just important to hang out with friends and try not to think about the fact that you have to end up going home by yourself. Just enjoy the company that you do have and do what you can to keep yourself busy. Its hard, but take comfort in the fact that I think everyone eventually goes through a lonely time in their life.

  • 1 decade ago

    I can 100% relate to what your feeling. For the last two years, I've been single and like you I go out with my girls I work two jobs, and when I go home at then end of the night I just want someone to be there to cuddle with and fill that lonely feeling. What gets me through is believing that there is someone out there for everyone and there's no point in settling, Maybe you should joins some different clubs, Hangout out in different places the was you and the girls normally do that way it's a different crowds. Good Luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    i feel the same way but not with husbands just with boyfriends because i am only in highschool..

    i keep looking for love , i want what my friends have that amazing attraction and REAL love with their like 'forever' boyfriends.

    im always smiling when im a third wheel or w.e but im not happy at all.

    i mean don't get me wrong im not ugly or anything i just want that mr.right

    that my friends have, i dont want to waste my time with people that i KNOW i wont go anywhere with.

    and i especially do not like to waste people's time by using them so im not a third wheel or w.e

    the way i heal this pain is i just hang out alot with my guy friends not girls because their always with their bfs AND normally when guys chill all together there not with their girlfriends , that makes me feel better.

  • 1 decade ago

    A breakthrough could be done by being really interested in life and interests of the other people. Do not think of you to be lonely any more. Thake care for them.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    yes I'm lonely all the time,i still feel like this

    help me i feel really bad about this

    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=201001...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    ////yes

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