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ok, so here's the deal. for the past few weeks i've been crushing on this guy i've seen around my school. he's really cute, seems really shy. i'm a guy, and well so is he, obviously. I had my friend ask him if he was like bi or gay, and he hesitated and got red when they asked him. so after that i felt i needed to take the initiative to write him a letter (i know so high school) so he always sits at lunch alone, and always comes at about 10 minutes before the bell rings, so yesterday my friend went up to him and was like "hey this is from my friend" and he pointed to me. before that though, my friends were being super loud about it and he was like a table away from like like 2 feet away and he kept looking back and you could tell he was red. so after he gave him the letter and he got red. my friends and i were all like "what if you tried avoiding him and ran into him anyways" what's said is done and i did run into him, awkward. he kept looking at me passing by and i got red and took out my phone and pretended to text (i know i know wrong move) so i put my number in the letter, said i hoped to hear from him and left it at that. today i saw him again at lunch and out of all the tables he sat at the one next to us, i got so reeedd! and blushed and my friends of course poking at the fact i got red, and he kept staring like he wanted to say something but was shy.

now idk am i reading to much into this? what do you guys think? i've never written a "love" note to a guy before and idk if he's to shy to approach me, and im to shy to approach me. what should i do what should i say im so confused.

David · Accepted Answer

I'm so sorry to say this, but that was absolutely adorable xD 
Okay, back to business. Obviously, or most likely, there's something happening between the two of you. Or at least, you make it sound that way. Well, if you are interested in him, you could always (if you can, you said you were shy) try and talk to him, casually. That would at least be a good start. Where things lead after that, is a whole other story, that is up to you to figure out.
Well, this seems sorta inappropriate, but...good luck? I dunno what to say. xD

sauvageot · Answer

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doogie2man · Answer

So sweet and innocent you are. May I suggest you don't include your friends in trying to get close to this guy. He is obviously shy and nervous and confused, including others only increases that and causes him to be uncomfortable and embarrassed. Try to meet him alone and proceed with caution, let whatever may happen happen, but don't rush it, and express how you feel about him without implicating him into what you may assume him to be. Suggest you use phrases like you noticed he dresses cool and he's mysterious because he sits alone, you know, things like that. Then if he responds and you become friends and trust is built then share your thoughts and feelings with him. So cute, puppy love!

Anonymous · Answer

this is too cute! lol Um...i think you're both obviously shy. And from what i've heard he's probably atleast curious about you, if not totally into you. Just wait it out! Maybe write him another letter? But dont involve your friends...he may not like that. good luck!

Dj MannyG · Answer

he will probably try to talk to you in this next few days... so look hot all week.. also thats awesome you had the balls to do that.. it is soo high school but whatev! you only live once so do whatever makes you happy!

Anonymous · Answer

i like the story.. i think he likes u too he just mite be a little confused.. now u have to be open and flirty to him just to make him more comfortable

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